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What does lockdown mean for victims of abuse?

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aztecnik · 04/11/2020 13:21

Since we are going in to lockdown tomorrow. Its made me think of how worse abuse against women and children could become in the next month.

I'm living with my ex and during 1st lockdown he has behaved sexually inappropriately towards me, threatened my child and made everything unpleasant. As it was warmer we were able to spend more time outside, but now that its colder and getting darker earlier, parks will close much sooner.

Libraries, cafes and other spaces will close.

We are people going to do to stay safe when locked in with their abuser?

OP posts:
yawnsvillex · 04/11/2020 13:24

Why are you living with your ex?

You can leave if you're in this situation.

Please get help, for you, and your daughter. You deserve better.

aztecnik · 04/11/2020 13:28

Because I can't afford to leave. Council will put me in temp accommodation on the outskirts of london away from her school and my family. I cant drive, have no car.

I've contacted relevant services. They dont have the resources to help.

OP posts:
Sadless · 04/11/2020 13:39

Have you any family that you could go and stay with.

Sal

aztecnik · 04/11/2020 13:41

Me and DD could sleep on my mums floor but we would be an hour from her school. Am I allowed to travel in the new lockdown?

OP posts:
FourTeaFallOut · 04/11/2020 13:43

Am I allowed to travel in the new lockdown?

Yes, for education, work, to access essential service, exercise, to access a support bubble, you can travel.

inthethickofit19 · 04/11/2020 13:44

Thinking and praying for you OP Thanks

AvoidingRealHumans · 04/11/2020 13:46

Thinking of you and I hope you're able to access some support.

user65423546256 · 04/11/2020 13:47

You are also allowed to travel to escape domestic abuse.

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