Last Tue I started self isolating after feeling unwell. (Was most likely a normal cold) I messaged her to tell her because I had a sign on door saying I wouldn't answer door for any delivery to phone me/leave on doorstep. She has to walk past my front door to get her bins/comes past to call her cat in so didn't want her to worry.
She messaged back saying she wasn't leaving house either after Friday (random day choice) because she is very high risk so would be self isolating for her protection.
Friday has come and gone. Not 1 day has she been in the house. She has been in and out in and out I see her coming and going in car. Sometimes gone for half the day.
She says her adult children will drop food for her. She has 3 adult sons, 1 lived with her and the other 2 have been over multiple times a day coming in to visit in past 2 days. They come in the house all scream and shout at each other then drive off at speed.
Every so often she will message asking how I am and in the message she will then say yes that's me now in the house and not going out again now...next day away out again. Why lie?!
Just stay in your house ffs. Also stop telling me you're so super high risk then not doing anything to protect yourself!
She's been out chatting in close contact with neighbour on other side. Opening door directly to delivery men/takeaway drivers and having close contact.
Not spying on her but can see it all out my window/walls paper thin. And I'm shielding so don't have much else to do.
Aibu to think she is behaving in a batshit way?