Here's a huge tip for everyone using this website and social media, full of scurrilous rumours, fake news and vitriol....
Sign off from tonight... midnight... don't go back on until this blows over. Your mental health as important at times like this as your physical health, and the uncensored nonsense that masquerades as "advice" and "what ifs" on this site will not help you one iota.
I expect this post to be removed by mumsnet, but if I help one person to remove themselves from this nest of lunacy and loathing I will consider ot a success.
Stay safe!