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ZebraDiva · 09/07/2010 09:01

I'm due to test on the 15th, but my periods are very irregular after stopping the pill, so may not be!

Have been having period type cramps for about 4 days but no AF.

Anyone else waiting?

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beckie90 · 07/08/2010 12:32

PATCHWORK just done another and just looked at it, its saying posative again so surely 2 cant be wrong now. straight to docs for me on monday. am very very scared now.
oh when did you say AF was due patchwork

patchworkquilt · 07/08/2010 12:46

Woohoo! So excited for you.

Are you afraid because of your loss or just that it might not be real? I understand either way, from my own experiences, I just wondered.

With my fears, I have decided, I can't prepare myself enough for anything so I just try to let myself enjoy the moment, moment to moment. I hope you can in some way too. It is so lovely and hard.

My AF is due next Friday, roughly. 13 August.

beckie90 · 07/08/2010 12:57

ooo mine was due on the 10th am guessin not anymore though lol. i would get one of them predictors that ive used if u wanted to test abit early cause there cheap so there for not really a waste a money and the hcg level is lower than clearblue.

im afraid of everything, havin my son i lost 2000+ ML of blood so dont want it to happen again i was soo ill and scared, i was only 18. so this time i think im gonna die or summat stupid i know. im scared of telling my mum n dad there gonna go mental haha, ive only just turned 20 and am gonna have 2 kids. oh boy the list goes on. but i was broody before i just wasnt 100% ready to have one yet. i lost a baby last year my son was a only a baby still, so i had him at 18 and was preg again at 18. after that i just went on the pill cause was too scared.

ohh i soo hope you get a posative soon :)

patchworkquilt · 07/08/2010 16:20

Well, you have done it once, so you can only hope it is ok this time too. I am sure the doctors will keep a close eye on you, with the history you have. I hope your parents are supportive, they probably will be.

I too am hoping I get a good result, but I am not sure.

beckie90 · 07/08/2010 18:01

i know i just keep saying its gonna come out 1 way or another so stop been daft lol. ive done the cheapy i had in my house from poundland said on that you couldnt use it till day after missed period which for me would be wensday 11th, but even that come posative which i didnt think it would, because its not a sensative one.

im sure you will soon, these things can take time. i hope you are this month though you will be same as me :)

spanxaremyonlyfriend · 08/08/2010 10:11

I got some bleeding last night Sad. It could be implantation but every time AF starts I go through the rigmarole of convincing myself its implantation until its undeniably AF.

patchworkquilt · 08/08/2010 17:07

spanxaremyonlyfriend

but you aren't due to the 15th right?

TotorosOcarina · 08/08/2010 17:11

Hiya,

I'm due to test end of this week.

My last cycle was 31 days.

So by 28 days I need to test Thursday onwards.

Am not feeling hopeful as its only our first month of really trying and only managed to BD CD 11 &16!

Have had period type cramps for a few days though so she may be coming early :(

beckie90 · 08/08/2010 18:48

but you might also be preg, as ive had those cramps in my last preg and this pregnancy i had them this morning and feel really bloated like im going to have a period but im not lol

spanxaremyonlyfriend · 08/08/2010 20:05

patchwork I was going to test on the 15th when I will be one day late. I try not to test early as I've had a few BFP but then AF has arrived. I'm due on the 14th which is saturday. Sometimes I have a 27 day cycle which would bring it to Friday with possible spotting on Thursday. If it is AF its very early. I always think AF is implantation so I don't want to get my hopes up.

I wasn't really spotting yesterday it was quite a bit all at once and bright red. Had a bit of brown spotting today. I'm confused and impatient.

beckie90 · 08/08/2010 20:31

thats what i keep thinking SPANX i got a bfp on friday 4 days before my af due, i have now done a total of 4 test including cb digital, which said pregnant same as others, but im due in 2 days now and i keep thinking im gonna get my period, as i feel bloated and full of water as i do before period due. i didnt know you could get false bfps, thats strange. im gonna go to docs tomorow to double check

spanxaremyonlyfriend · 08/08/2010 21:18

I don't think you can get a false +ve as such. You can get pg hormonally but it doesn't implant properly or some other problem occurs and you get what is technically a very erly mc disguised as AF.

beckie90 · 08/08/2010 22:04

o yeah ive heard that like a very high percent of people, miscarrage before even finding out

good luck for your testing :)

cowboylover · 08/08/2010 22:29

Well after a slight mis-calcualtion of dates I am now over a week late and dont know what to do with myself! I talk about everything with my Mum and not sure if I should mention it or not as I know people always say you shouldnt tell anyone except DH until 12 weeks but might have to as im going to burst!

I have not tested and dont think I want to as im not seeing much of my DH for the next week and dont want to be on my own what ever the news is. Im just so scared!!

Symptons have been a slight sicky/seasick feeling constantly, spotty, dizzy and more than tired with slight pins and needles in my boobs but they could also be PMS.

TotorosOcarina · 11/08/2010 13:46

Oh lord think I t go a faint line!!

NinjaChipmunk · 11/08/2010 14:31

congrats totoros! fab news.
i'm due af on sat/ sun and have been feeling bloated today and have been v short tempered this week. don't know what that's about. I hate hate hate the wait. why can't you just know automatically when it happens?

spanxaremyonlyfriend · 11/08/2010 22:04

Congratulations Totoros. My AF started good and proper today. Its not even due until sat so I'm not pleased.

TotorosOcarina · 12/08/2010 09:09

bfn on first response :(

NinjaChipmunk · 12/08/2010 13:01

pooh! try again in a day or two maybe?

TotorosOcarina · 12/08/2010 20:25

Yes I think so,

AF not here still but still have cramps, have had them for days!

Will not test till Monday if AF hasn't been!

beckie90 · 12/08/2010 21:08

yes thats a good idea, how late are you now TOTO

TotorosOcarina · 12/08/2010 22:15

I'm not even late Blush

I'm due Sunday!

beckie90 · 12/08/2010 22:44

oh i see, well yes see what happens and test monday, do let us know though, hopefully it will be good news :) good luck

NinjaChipmunk · 13/08/2010 09:05

good luck for mon totoros, i'm due sun too, got bfn from clearblue this morning. ah well, will try not to get depressed about it.

on another note does anyone use OV kits? might try one next month but have never used before.

sillybillymummy · 13/08/2010 09:53

AF got me - Boooo
Good luck everyone else x