DS is 15mths and have been ttc for some months now, although not something I would discuss with anyone. Will be big family Christmas and will be mentioned/asked/commented on many times - 'oh he needs a bro/sister' or 'oh time for #2' etc etc - you get the gist! I find queries like that hard to brush off and very personal and would be love to be mentally prepared with a short reply thats not too personal (and not rude - cause I can think of lots of them!).
Any experience/advice gratefully receieved. Thanks