Desparate but all the signs are it's never going to happen

[stuarts]

I am 39.

Have been trying for over a year.

Have had severe endometriosis in the past (currently have a 4cm cyst, couple of other cysts, and a few small fibroids). Last FSH was 17.9 (prior to that ranged from 12 to 15). AMH test was 1.9.

Has anyone else been in similar situation and still managed to conceive?

Thnaks

Fairly similar. Had to have polyps removed, then IVF. Don't give up! Obviously you are seeing a GP or you wouldn't know all these details. Ask them what you should do next. Get concrete suggestions. Time for more intensive intervention, I would say.

Hi

Thanks for your reply. Have had lots of intervention (unfortunately), seen lots of consultants. Can't have IVF (neither NHS nor private hospital will do it on me using my own eggs as they say it's just pointless, it won't work).

Our only option is IVF with donor eggs, long story but we're just waiting if someone we know will be accepted as a donor.

Just keep plodding on whlet we waiting in the hope that it may just happen naturally, but I'm obviously kidding myself

Did you know that if you go abroad it is reletively quick and easy to get donor eggs?

histuarts

i have 2 childre however have a cyst and had to get some laser before.

i would love another baby , however we have been trying for about a year and nothing is happening.

i believe its something to do with the cyst, with my second child i got pregnant in a month

i hope you find a way, keep your chin up its still could happen

hiya, now never give up, i had nasty period pains and was almost adddicted to pain killers went for all tests and had a laproscopy n was told that i had endometriosis, scar, blocked fallopian tubes and was advised to have ivf-told the consultant i was not ready bodywise as i drank n smocked but was advised to freeze eggs before 36 dh bullied me into fast track ivf paid for it and was about to start went for last consultation- was asked if i was using protection n i said no so they said wait for your next period dh went mad saying this would delay us- went home and you wont believe this i was pregnant-my baby would have been vacuumed out-got refund back we had been trying for 2yrs and dh had low sperm count, so i say miracles happen u should try everything and dont give up-i concieved within 2months of laproscopy. goodluck.

Reindeersnake, have you been abroad for IVF ?

I feel as if we are being robbed blind having IVF locally, is it much cheaper abroad ?