Has anoyone been 20 weeks pregnant and NOT known?

[ButtonMeUp]

Am going to do a test tomorrow and feel very foolish for wondering if i am or not and probably am not as still breastfeeding ds1 (9 months old). Havent yet had period and had trouble ttc and pcos and had clomid.

Thing is i keep thinking i can feel a baby moving (probably wind) and also my breasts have been sore when feeding although this has subsided now. Also felt intensely irritated when ds2 comfort sucks but again this has subsided too.

I am quite emotional atm but that could be lack of sleep as well.

Feel like i am silly for wondering. Have a bit of a tummy atm but wouldnt say it was a bump and have flab left from last 2 dc (and choc)

yes when my friends mum was in a state of a shock cos she didnt know she was 7 mths pg..she was having normal periods etc and only put on a small amount of weight on.

Also another friend thought she had a tummy ache, went to the docs and docs said that she was in labour...she knew she was putting abit of weight on but not realised she was pg!!!

first one was in her 20's expecting her first and the second one was in her 40's expecting her 3rd.

I lived in a house share with 3 girls and we none of us (including her) noticed that one was pregnant for 7 months . We were all discreet about her weight gain and bigging up her new fab bosom....oh and wasn't it funny how she felt sick after just one beer and went off smoking (thank god).

I tested........

and was negative Ah well must just have a cake belly and bad wind! that or the test was crap..... (musnt even go there! will drive dp nuts!)

Wont be long before 'actively' ttc again anyway so must be patient...

Cant stop wondering though .. what if

aww thats a shame...best of luck though when you start ttc, or if the test turns out to be crap