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Anyone else due on or around 18th Sept??

72 replies

LullyMummaOfOne · 09/09/2008 15:21

If so feel free to pass the time with me!

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CoteDAzur · 18/09/2008 14:54

Mine is also due on 20th. After two months of heartbreak on BFN, I am definitely not testing.

I'm angry at the whole world today, which generally means AF its on its way, so not raising my hopes.

MsG · 18/09/2008 23:20

Have awful PMT-type stomach ache today, worse than usual. So I'm not hopeful either. x

wasabipeanut · 19/09/2008 10:23

Feeling a bit sad today. Only month 2 of trying so no right to be upset but I am.

Jools1 · 19/09/2008 10:29

Wasabi - if it helps, my lucky cycle was only number 3 - I felt exactly like you last cycle as I'd never realised before what a rollercoaster this all can be and had convinced myself there was no hope and I was too old ...

Have faith I am certain you will do it soon

wasabipeanut · 19/09/2008 10:36

Thanks Jools - just because I am a bit sad doesn't mean I'm still not happy for you! How did your DH react?

Jools1 · 19/09/2008 11:09

Wasabi - I think DP is still in shock !!

To cut a long story shorter, we've been engaged nearly ten years (!) and he's always known I've wanted children. Unfortunately he had a very bad time with illness / taking his employers to tribunal and ended up out of work for 4 years, just at the time I wanted to TTC ! So, 2 years on from that and he's been in a decent (temp) job for a year - I tell him its now or never as we're both getting on a bit and he agrees to TTC, but I don't bother him with the details and he doesn't really want to talk about it... He said last night he never believed it would happen and I've tried not to say too much or force things - just let him absorb it all.

His biggest worry is age - the thought of being 60 when DC is 18 I don't like it either, but equally I can't bear to go through life without having a family of my own.

He will come round - he is not anti, just dazed and confused - and I'm still on Cloud 9

orangehead · 19/09/2008 11:14

Can I join in, was due on monday so four days late but bfn last night. Really confused, not sure how long to wait to test again if still not come on

CoteDAzur · 19/09/2008 11:15

3rd cycle lucky for us, too. BFP this morning!

Please keep fingers crossed for us - really hoping this is a sticky one, as I'm 37 and was running low on hope.

Sprinkling lots of baby dust all over the thread

orangehead · 19/09/2008 11:17

Congrats cote, keeping fingers crossed

wasabipeanut · 19/09/2008 13:43

Hello Orangehead - I'd give it a couple of days and try again. Its so wierd - some people get BFP's several days before they are due, and with some it seems to take a week or more afterwards. I guess hormone levels vary - good luck though.

Jools - I understand about your DP's confusion! I clearly remember the moment when I told my DH about DS - he had just come back from nipping out to the shops. I shouted from upstairs "you need to look at this (the test) I think I'm pregnant". His exact reply "oh alright, hang on I'll just go and put this cheese in the fridge".

He remained sort of nonplussed for a few days until it gradually filtered in. Men are such funny creatures!

MsG · 19/09/2008 14:43

Congrats Jools and Cote! Fingers crossed for the rest of us. Not feeling particularly positive as I've been having stomachy gripes as I said, but I suppose I won't know for a few days.

orangehead · 19/09/2008 14:51

wasabi- all my other pregancies got pfb a day or two before due.
sorry your feeling sad.

yellowflowers · 19/09/2008 17:50

i tested today - bfn. still no af though

MsG · 20/09/2008 12:41

Still waiting for my AF, although it's not unusual for it to arrive later in the day or evening. Not holding my breath, though of course I am a bit...

orangehead · 20/09/2008 12:48

Its confusing isnt it yellow and mrsg. Still no af so 6 days late, I am going to test tomrrow morning.

Wishing · 20/09/2008 13:58

im on my 3rd day of being late and still no sign of af - bfn this morning with tesco's own test and several signs of pregnancy!! this is torture!!

orangehead · 20/09/2008 14:19

It is torture, did you test with first morning pee? Supposed to be stronger then.

Wishing · 20/09/2008 14:31

Yeah i did test with fmu was so disappointed with bfn but still no sign of af

x

orangehead · 21/09/2008 11:48

Did test this morning - bfn but still now af. Dont know if I should go to doc and ask for a blood test or not

orangehead · 21/09/2008 11:49

Did test this morning - bfn but still now af. Dont know if I should go to doc and ask for a blood test or not

Wishing · 21/09/2008 21:39

im exactly the same orangehead!! no sign - 4 days late now nearly but another negative test!! xxx

Ilovebeingamummy · 21/09/2008 22:07

hi orangehead and wishing - me too! I was due last tues so now 5 days late but still -ve and no af.

But according to this calculator www.hip-chick-pregnancy-guide.com/due-date-calculator.html first reliable date for test is Sept 24??

So am tryig to hold off wasting anymore tests til then. Glad it not just me though!! x

Wishing · 22/09/2008 11:39

Me 2!! so glad someone else is going through this are you thinking about anything else, i dont seem to be!! im at docs this afternoon but dont think they will tell me much! Symptoms are now;

exhausted
sore boobs
stomach cramps and constipations
slight (very slight) Nausea
Metaliic tase in mouth
4 days late today

3 negative tests - one being a clearbllue digital!! aarrghh!!

im still wishing thou - good luck to everyone, keep in touch xxxxxxx

Ilovebeingamummy · 22/09/2008 12:26

SNAP to all that wishing. Keep in touch - i am thinking of nothing else some days and feeling like a nutcase - so glad not to be alone!

Can't go to GP to request blood test as if I am pregnant I dont want it on their notes yet because I get my antenatal care out of county and I will be in for all sorts of hassle. So am hamstrung for a while. I can't even how long to leave it if this carries on with no af, and can;t stop testing daily

Ilovebeingamummy · 22/09/2008 12:27

I am now 6 days late too...and even the 1st response and clearblue are a resounding -ve!