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Anyone else 9DPO with no symptoms and waiting to test?

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BePinkWriter · 18/08/2026 10:22

9DPO today and literally feel nothing apart from slight period type cramps that come and go. My period is due Monday (24th).
I have a gut feeling that I’m out again this cycle. I told myself that I wouldn’t test until my period is at least 3 days late because the disappointment of seeing a negative test again is too brutal.

is anyone on a similar DPO to me and experiencing any “symptoms”. It might be too early but I see people online talking about how they “just knew” or they had symptoms this early, and there’s me with nothing every month!

TIA x

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Vimto1991 · 18/08/2026 12:08

im either 9dpo or 0, my symptoms are cramps like yours but also ewcm. I have a weird pressure near my c section scar and a fluttering feeling.
so either way something is happening, but most likely ovulation again and back at square one :( I took a test today and bfn so not hopeful.
if it helps with my first I had no symptoms other than cramps!

BePinkWriter · 18/08/2026 12:28

Vimto1991 · 18/08/2026 12:08

im either 9dpo or 0, my symptoms are cramps like yours but also ewcm. I have a weird pressure near my c section scar and a fluttering feeling.
so either way something is happening, but most likely ovulation again and back at square one :( I took a test today and bfn so not hopeful.
if it helps with my first I had no symptoms other than cramps!

Oh no, I’m sorry 😔
I tend to get some form of cramping on the lead up to my period anyway so this isn’t really anything different for me unfortunately 😔 I did notice some cervical mucus on the toilet paper when I peed this morning that was clear and watery in consistency but that could just be caused by hormones as my period isn’t too far away so I’m trying to not read into it! Argh!

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Vimto1991 · 18/08/2026 12:59

BePinkWriter · 18/08/2026 12:28

Oh no, I’m sorry 😔
I tend to get some form of cramping on the lead up to my period anyway so this isn’t really anything different for me unfortunately 😔 I did notice some cervical mucus on the toilet paper when I peed this morning that was clear and watery in consistency but that could just be caused by hormones as my period isn’t too far away so I’m trying to not read into it! Argh!

It’s all so confusing isn’t it, I’m trying not to symptom spot as having pmos and endo I just get random things in my cycles anyway.
I wish there was a 1dpo test 🙈😂

Daisyinthegrass · 19/08/2026 12:38

I'm 9dpo today and trying not to symptom spot, but I just can't help myself. My nipples are less sensitive than they were but my partner says they still feel heavy (I don't know - I carry them around all day so dont really notice!). I'm not sure if the veins on my breasts are a pregnancy sign or if they're there all the time. I've been having some lower abdo cramping - I don't usually have that, not sure if that's a positive sign or just because I've increased our fibre intake. I had a tiny, tiny little bit of spotting on the toilet paper, the tiniest hint of light pink, so not sure if that means anything.

I caved this morning and tested. It was negative. I knew it would be, especially considered I'd urinated 2 hours prior.

I've looked back over my cycle list - my luteal phase hasn't been great - 9-11 days for the last 18 months. So the fact there's been no significant spotting yet, I'm taking that as a plus. I'm trying not to get my hopes up, though.

I'm desperately hoping for a positive, we've been trying for almost 2 years (with a short ttc break in the middle). It's so tiring, frustrating and disheartening.

BePinkWriter · 19/08/2026 15:57

Daisyinthegrass · 19/08/2026 12:38

I'm 9dpo today and trying not to symptom spot, but I just can't help myself. My nipples are less sensitive than they were but my partner says they still feel heavy (I don't know - I carry them around all day so dont really notice!). I'm not sure if the veins on my breasts are a pregnancy sign or if they're there all the time. I've been having some lower abdo cramping - I don't usually have that, not sure if that's a positive sign or just because I've increased our fibre intake. I had a tiny, tiny little bit of spotting on the toilet paper, the tiniest hint of light pink, so not sure if that means anything.

I caved this morning and tested. It was negative. I knew it would be, especially considered I'd urinated 2 hours prior.

I've looked back over my cycle list - my luteal phase hasn't been great - 9-11 days for the last 18 months. So the fact there's been no significant spotting yet, I'm taking that as a plus. I'm trying not to get my hopes up, though.

I'm desperately hoping for a positive, we've been trying for almost 2 years (with a short ttc break in the middle). It's so tiring, frustrating and disheartening.

Ugh I totally understand. It’s so hard and disappointing! I’m 10 DPO today and almost tested, although managed to talk myself out of it. I know if it’s negative I will just be annoyed at myself for wasting a test when my period isn’t even late yet! I’m trying to tell myself that until my period is a few days late.. all symptoms are just progesterone symptoms and not pregnancy! X

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Daisyinthegrass · 20/08/2026 20:49

It's so frustrating!

Have you managed to hold off testing again? I didn't, tested again this morning, negative again this morning.

I don't know if I felt a little nauseous this morning, or if it was because my partner asked me (getting quite excited last night) whether I'd had any nausea. I didn't think I was so receptive to being led but I think I may be! I've definitely still got sore breasts though.

Two out of the last three nights I've dreamt I was pregnant

Baby2pls · 20/08/2026 21:13

Good luck to you all!

I’m 12dpo and tested negative today. Felt crampy every evening since about 5dpo so it’s been agonising waiting and wondering. I even got spots come up at 7dpo - exactly same as what happened when I fell pregnant with DS. The wait is stressing meeee!

Juststarting12 · 20/08/2026 21:42

I’m 9DPO & got a BFN this morning. I’m pretty sure I’m out this month, gut feeling so I won’t test again until AF.
I’ve been TTC on & off for a long time now & each month it gets harder & harder.

BePinkWriter · Yesterday 08:22

Daisyinthegrass · 20/08/2026 20:49

It's so frustrating!

Have you managed to hold off testing again? I didn't, tested again this morning, negative again this morning.

I don't know if I felt a little nauseous this morning, or if it was because my partner asked me (getting quite excited last night) whether I'd had any nausea. I didn't think I was so receptive to being led but I think I may be! I've definitely still got sore breasts though.

Two out of the last three nights I've dreamt I was pregnant

Ah I’m sorry it was negative! Maybe test again in a few days?! I haven’t tested because I’m pretty sure I’m not pregnant.. I’ve had very light pink spotting on and off for the last two days (10DPO and 11DPO) so I think my period is going to come a few days early as I also have cramping like my period is about to start any minute 😔 TTC is so cruel because I never had any kind of spotting before I was trying to get pregnant, but I’ve noticed it twice since trying to conceive and the first time I convinced myself it was implantation bleeding (it wasn’t!) so now I feel like I know it’s just only a matter of time before my period starts properly! X

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BePinkWriter · Yesterday 08:24

Juststarting12 · 20/08/2026 21:42

I’m 9DPO & got a BFN this morning. I’m pretty sure I’m out this month, gut feeling so I won’t test again until AF.
I’ve been TTC on & off for a long time now & each month it gets harder & harder.

It’s so tough! Hang in there and don’t give up 😔 x

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BePinkWriter · Yesterday 08:36

Baby2pls · 20/08/2026 21:13

Good luck to you all!

I’m 12dpo and tested negative today. Felt crampy every evening since about 5dpo so it’s been agonising waiting and wondering. I even got spots come up at 7dpo - exactly same as what happened when I fell pregnant with DS. The wait is stressing meeee!

Ahhh.. maybe test again in two days?! Good luck!

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Baby2pls · Yesterday 08:39

@BePinkWriter I hope it’s the outcome you’re NOT expecting!!

Pinkish spotting with CM this morning and crampy. Negative test. Here AF comes :(

I might start BBT charting again next month. I did this with DS and I suspected a couple of days before I tested that I was pregnant which kept the urge to test at bay. I need a different method other than testing every day as it’s just horrid isn’t it

Baby2pls · Yesterday 08:40

@Juststarting12 fingers crossed for this month. You’ve still got a couple of days for a positive to appear! X

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