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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

May 2025 TTC Support Thread #2!

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Muddysocks1 · 08/05/2025 19:43

As suggested, because so many of us on the other thread, shall we have a little roll call?

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Kayleaaa · 16/05/2025 10:13

BGxxx · 16/05/2025 10:08

I tested this morning at 8dpo, even though I said I wouldn’t 🤣 and I got a positive! It’s our second cycle trying after an ectopic so really hoping this is baby no2 on the way!🤞🏻

Huge congratulations! ❤️

Kayleaaa · 16/05/2025 10:15

Ec2808 · 16/05/2025 10:13

@Kayleaaa just as confused don't know what dpo i am anymore every app & person is telling me something else 😥

It's awful isn't it!! Especially if we're less dpo than we think then maybe the faint lines make sense, but if not then it's disheartening that it could just be evaps! I've just never had evaps on so many different tests and brands before?

Ec2808 · 16/05/2025 10:21

@Kayleaaa yea exactly how I feel...hopefully that's it and our lines will get darker!!!❤can't handle another loss 😥

2Sugars2 · 16/05/2025 10:31

congrats to you @BGxxx

Bas27 · 16/05/2025 11:16

@BGxxxcongrats. ✨✨ Although this makes me think I should test at 8DPO (Sunday) even though it’s very likely pointless!!
@KayleaaaI’m sorry it’s so uncertain at the moment. FWIW I can see something too. I would keep testing.
@Ec2808based on what y put be said I still think you have time. I did think when I looked at your chart that ovulation could have happened much later but I am very much a novice who doesn’t know what I’m talking about so kept my mouth shut. I wouldn’t count yourself out yet my lovely, as hard as it is.

Ec2808 · 16/05/2025 11:35

Thanks @Bas27will have to see
anybody else get to look at my tests ?❤️

YKM2829 · 16/05/2025 11:37

BGxxx · 16/05/2025 10:06

I do bbt with my oura ring so possibly bit different. If you’re using a thermometer it needs to be one with 2 decimal places! I wanted to do it to help my exactly pinpoint and confirm ovulation. I’ve done it for 3 cycles now and it’s been really reassuring

I've just seen you got your bfp today! Congrats, I don't suppose you know if your bbt corresponds with your bfp, as in did you notice any patterns or anything?? Xxxx

FlyHighSky72 · 16/05/2025 11:51

Congrats @BGxxx

SureLook · 16/05/2025 11:55

@YKM2829 good luck! Sorry I don't know anything about BBT.

@Chocolateeggsarebetterthannormalchocolate best of luck, keep us posted. You're still in until AF shows!

@Kayleaaa I'd say you're still in with a chance if AF isn't due for another few days? I'm the same as @Iris2024 I can see a shadow but no colour.

Sorry to hear AF has arrived @Iris2024 ❤️

@DownWithCremeEggs we'll be here waiting!

@jelliebean9 mine would also come and go in the lead up to OV. It wouldn't be constantly there.

@Ec2808 I can see something on the Premom test 🤞🏻

@BGxxx that's fantastic, congratulations! Fingers crossed for a sticky bean ❤️

NiftySheep · 16/05/2025 11:56

Hi all, second cycle trying for #2. Currently 8DPO, BBT still high but had some spotting just now (pink, a few small clots). Do we think potential implantation bleeding? Period not due for another 6 days (and always always consistent!)

SureLook · 16/05/2025 11:58

@NiftySheep definitely sounds like it could be implantation bleeding 🤞🏻🤞🏻

BGxxx · 16/05/2025 12:04

YKM2829 · 16/05/2025 11:37

I've just seen you got your bfp today! Congrats, I don't suppose you know if your bbt corresponds with your bfp, as in did you notice any patterns or anything?? Xxxx

I’ll send you my chart! I don’t think it’s really shows much🤣

May 2025 TTC Support Thread #2!
BGxxx · 16/05/2025 12:05

NiftySheep · 16/05/2025 11:56

Hi all, second cycle trying for #2. Currently 8DPO, BBT still high but had some spotting just now (pink, a few small clots). Do we think potential implantation bleeding? Period not due for another 6 days (and always always consistent!)

I had some pink implantation bleeding with my first pregnancy, it was around 7/8 dpo and just lasted a few wipes xx

bigbird1234 · 16/05/2025 13:07

Trying to work out if my aversion to eating sausage casserole leftovers is pregnancy nausea or the fact it tasted like shit 🤔

ttcjourney20001 · 16/05/2025 13:18

bigbird1234 · 16/05/2025 13:07

Trying to work out if my aversion to eating sausage casserole leftovers is pregnancy nausea or the fact it tasted like shit 🤔

🤣🤣this made me chuckle. In the first trimester slums so this brought a smile to my face 🙈🤣

Muddysocks1 · 16/05/2025 13:47

YKM2829 · 16/05/2025 07:52

Is anyone clued up on bbt. Is it basically just temperature testing? And is it right that if it goes up near AF it could possible mean pregnancy? Or is it more for ovulation?
Also mouth? Ear? Armpit?
Can I use just a normal like baby thermometer thingy that you can get from boots or somewhere the cheap battery ones or does it have to be some sort of specific one?

Thank youuii 😘

Yup it’s temp testing / you need a thermometer than goes to two decimal places (you can get them cheap on Amazon), either in your mouth or some people do vaginally! Needs to be roughly the same time every day (tbh for me that’s between 6-8am) and after at least 4hrs sleep, so do when you first wake up.
it’ll be lower in the first half, then rises when you ovulate. If you enter into an app like Fertility Friend it will advise when it thinks you’ve ovulated which is handy if you’re new to temping. If you’re pregnant temps will stay high, otherwise I don’t think you can tell that much from post ovulation temps unless they’re dropping consistently low or below the cover line.
the book Taking Charge of Your Fertility is amazing if you want to learn it all “properly”, but just getting a thermometer and using an app like fertility friend or premom is all you really need. On fertility friend you can log all sorts of other indicators like OPKs and cervical mucus which also feed into its analysis. I’ve done it for years and it’s easy once you get into the swing of it.. but it’s easy to obsess over charts (which is what I do every cycle 🤣) and sometimes they can indicate pregnancy but it’s hard to say until your period is pretty much due

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Kayleaaa · 16/05/2025 13:57

This is my current chart this month, little triangles mean I took it out of the time window but I was using another app to begin with so all the earlier temps were ones I actually inputed at all at once! Didn't take temp yesterday as battery died.

May 2025 TTC Support Thread #2!
Muddysocks1 · 16/05/2025 14:03

Kayleaaa · 16/05/2025 13:57

This is my current chart this month, little triangles mean I took it out of the time window but I was using another app to begin with so all the earlier temps were ones I actually inputed at all at once! Didn't take temp yesterday as battery died.

Nice rise at the end!
this is my last cycle (just started a new one), lots of triangles where timing is a bit inconsistent 🙈 I don’t know why I had a random high temp just before ovulation on day 11, but you’re looking at the overall pattern not individual temps, so I discounted it

May 2025 TTC Support Thread #2!
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Kayleaaa · 16/05/2025 14:19

@Muddysocks1 yeah it's giving me hope but when I see the plummet I'll cry haha. Yours is a lot more consistent! I think I must just get extra sweaty around af 😂

EmPeEf · 16/05/2025 14:59

YKM2829 · 16/05/2025 07:52

Is anyone clued up on bbt. Is it basically just temperature testing? And is it right that if it goes up near AF it could possible mean pregnancy? Or is it more for ovulation?
Also mouth? Ear? Armpit?
Can I use just a normal like baby thermometer thingy that you can get from boots or somewhere the cheap battery ones or does it have to be some sort of specific one?

Thank youuii 😘

Hi. I’ve just started doing mine and this is what I found out.
2 decimal places like people say.
In the mouth.
Take it as soon as your eyes open in the morning, don’t even sit up.

Hope this helps!

EmPeEf · 16/05/2025 15:16

@BGxxx oh congratulations! Strong results for 8dpo, that must be reassuring ☺️

@Kayleaaa crossing my fingers for you. I could definitely see something on your test. One of those “it’s not stark white” results. When are you testing next?

Kayleaaa · 16/05/2025 15:21

@EmPeEf Thanks for looking! Honestly dont think I will again unless AF is late, so maybe tuesday? Might change my mind if symptoms seem strong!

DownWithCremeEggs · 16/05/2025 15:27

Omg so I just went to the toilet and had some very very light bleeding. Like a couple of dots of pink. I've been a bit cramps for the past day or so too. So either my period is starting a week early or it's implantation bleeding?? I've never had it before so have no clue what it's supposed to look like.

SureLook · 16/05/2025 16:04

@DownWithCremeEggs my implantation bleeding was light pink and only there when I wiped. Didn't last long either. How many dpo are you? Sounds promising!

DownWithCremeEggs · 16/05/2025 16:05

@SureLook thank you! I'm 7DPO today. Keeping my fingers crossed!