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May 2025 TTC Support Thread #2!

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Muddysocks1 · 08/05/2025 19:43

As suggested, because so many of us on the other thread, shall we have a little roll call?

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Ec2808 · 15/05/2025 12:12

@SureLook really hope so really don't feel well today
@Kayleaaa yes but not as much as on may 6&7 which is why I'm starting to think I messed up..feel sick to my stomach now honestly 😔
didn't know it was possible to ovulate so long after LH peak...😫

Ec2808 · 15/05/2025 12:15

@Kayleaaa but then my cm has been really bizarr this whole cycle I feel...I had ewcm on CD 14, CD 17&18 was creamy , CD19 was ewcm & watery, CD 20 was creamy & then sticky, CD 22 was creamy, CD 23 was ewcm, and since Monday a mixture of creamy and ewcm...😫

SureLook · 15/05/2025 12:31

@Ec2808 try not to stress. There's so much you can't control x

BGxxx · 15/05/2025 12:41

Ec2808 · 15/05/2025 11:45

I’m soo confused i had my lh peak on cd15 today is cd27 but my bbt only rose on cd20 so a lot of people are telling me i likely ovulated later and now i’m starting to think i’m out because we didn’t dtd in right window 😔 only chance would be a swimmer that hung around 3-4 days which for me seems a long time 😔😔going off of that i’m only 8 or 9 dpo now 😩😩😩

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I’ve read some articles saying bbt can take longer to rise than just 1dpo! So you could of ovulated cycle day 17/18 and it’s just taken a little longer to rise

Disneybride · 15/05/2025 12:43

Well AF arrived last night. At least I got to my blood tests today as needed new cycle…

Ec2808 · 15/05/2025 12:44

@BGxxx really hope soo because if I really only ovulated 4 days after my peak my chances are not high at all 😭

Muddysocks1 · 15/05/2025 12:54

Ec2808 · 15/05/2025 12:44

@BGxxx really hope soo because if I really only ovulated 4 days after my peak my chances are not high at all 😭

Yes unfortunately it really varies woman to woman, how soon you ovulate after LH surge/peak, and then how long until your BBT rises. I think this is why often OPKs aren’t recommended by professionals (obv I use them too!) because they can cause confusion or people to mistime sex.
but yeah it could be your temp just rose slowly! And sperm can live for 5ish days, so not all hope lost!
have you got a photo of your temps before ovulation too? Like were your temps trending up after LH peak even if not over the cover line?

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Kayleaaa · 15/05/2025 13:04

Just nipping on quickly to say I'm sorry @disneybride ❤️

Ec2808 · 15/05/2025 13:08

@Disneybride so sorry 😞sending hugs!! xxx

Ec2808 · 15/05/2025 13:10

@Muddysocks1thank you soo much for looking here’s my full chart…really soo confused today 😢 and as you know i’m not familiar with bbt yet..❤️

May 2025 TTC Support Thread #2!
SureLook · 15/05/2025 13:18

Sorry @Disneybride at least you won't be on your period for your holidays now.

Muddysocks1 · 15/05/2025 13:29

Ec2808 · 15/05/2025 13:10

@Muddysocks1thank you soo much for looking here’s my full chart…really soo confused today 😢 and as you know i’m not familiar with bbt yet..❤️

Hmmm, yes your other temps are below so does indicate maybe later. Could still be delayed temp shift. It’s so hard when we feel we’ve missed an opportunity in an cycle when we want it so bad, but might not be lost, I know it doesn’t make it any easier ❤️

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Ec2808 · 15/05/2025 13:32

@Muddysocks1 I know I feel soo sad 😥really tried soo hard to do it right this cycle and just feel like I missed it again 😥

SureLook · 15/05/2025 13:48

Sending hugs @Ec2808 ❤️

Ec2808 · 15/05/2025 14:17

@SureLook thank you ❤

Disneybride · 15/05/2025 14:29

Kayleaaa · 15/05/2025 13:04

Just nipping on quickly to say I'm sorry @disneybride ❤️

Thank you, I am a bit down today - I’ve never been so much as late in 5 years so I was still hoping being 2 days late, even with the negatives. 😩

Disneybride · 15/05/2025 14:29

SureLook · 15/05/2025 13:18

Sorry @Disneybride at least you won't be on your period for your holidays now.

Yes there is that! It should be my next fertile window 🙌

Disneybride · 15/05/2025 14:30

Ec2808 · 15/05/2025 13:08

@Disneybride so sorry 😞sending hugs!! xxx

Thank you xx

Disneybride · 15/05/2025 14:31

Ec2808 · 15/05/2025 13:32

@Muddysocks1 I know I feel soo sad 😥really tried soo hard to do it right this cycle and just feel like I missed it again 😥

Hugs! I felt the same! First month of BBT for me too xx

Ec2808 · 15/05/2025 14:42

@Disneybride really feel broken 😔! Hugs!! xx

Cocoqx · 15/05/2025 15:51

My husbands down with the flu so im not feeling to particularly baby dance- imagine he bought himself dry chesty cough syrup- had some last night and now ive got very fertile looking CM! Is that how it works!? Due to enter fertile window in 2 days from my app but so cool

Cocoqx · 15/05/2025 15:52

is it bad im willing to hold off anorher month on ttc as i dont wana get the flu haha?

Iris2024 · 15/05/2025 20:41

Hi ladies, sorry for all feeling upset, I’m right there with you! Had some blood on wipe earlier and nothing since. Just want full flow now. Don’t know if to count today as CD1?

Sending love to you all, I feel like I’ll never get my second child and feeling really sad tonight!

bigbird1234 · 15/05/2025 20:45

Iris2024 · 15/05/2025 20:41

Hi ladies, sorry for all feeling upset, I’m right there with you! Had some blood on wipe earlier and nothing since. Just want full flow now. Don’t know if to count today as CD1?

Sending love to you all, I feel like I’ll never get my second child and feeling really sad tonight!

could it be implantation bleeding?

i just had something similar but not sure if it’s the normal spotting I get pre-period or implantation bleeding.

it was like a lot of milky white dishcharge but slightly pale pink

Im CD26 and 10DPO.

Ec2808 · 15/05/2025 20:47

@Iris2024feeling very sad too 😔 cd 27 and really upset tummy 😔😔

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