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In the dreaded 2 week wait

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WishUponAStar4 · 28/04/2025 14:13

Hello lovely ladies, wishing you all luck on your journey. Anybody else currently in the 2 week wait? It has to be the longest wait doesn't it? I am only 2 DPO and already want to test 😭. I know I will shortly start imagining symptoms now too 🙈

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WishUponAStar4 · 04/07/2025 10:43

Mouche85 · 04/07/2025 10:31

Aaaah I cracked! I tested yesterday, last pee of the day, on a standard (not early) test, at 9 DPO. BFN!

🤣🤣🤣 we're all the same. It's impossible not too. I am also BFN today either 8dpo (app) or 9dpo ( my own estimate)

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Ttcaftertfmr · 04/07/2025 13:04

WishUponAStar4 · 03/07/2025 21:02

Iv hit the stage where I'm feeling low even thought its early days. Very irritable today
. 2ww is torture 😞

Ah pet it’s so grim isn’t it!! You’re not alone ❤️ and as the others have said, IF this cycle isn’t it, it’s on to the next and maybe that’s the one ✨🤞🏻 xxxx

WishUponAStar4 · 04/07/2025 13:10

Ttcaftertfmr · 04/07/2025 13:04

Ah pet it’s so grim isn’t it!! You’re not alone ❤️ and as the others have said, IF this cycle isn’t it, it’s on to the next and maybe that’s the one ✨🤞🏻 xxxx

I think i have one or 2 days like this every month. I havnt had a healthy month sing trying yet 🤣. Had the chemical, followed by a super stressful month followed by sickness this month. So hopefully next month will be a good one 🤣 not that this month is over yet 🤣

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Itonlytakesone · 04/07/2025 14:22

11dpo bfn. Cramps/pain abdo is quite debilitating I’m not having a good time of it. Think after AF shows I’m taking a break from ttc. Iv been messed up for 2 weeks this time it’s painful 😖

WishUponAStar4 · 04/07/2025 14:29

Itonlytakesone · 04/07/2025 14:22

11dpo bfn. Cramps/pain abdo is quite debilitating I’m not having a good time of it. Think after AF shows I’m taking a break from ttc. Iv been messed up for 2 weeks this time it’s painful 😖

I was the exact same the cycle after my chemical. Awful cramps and felt unwell. I do feel alot better this month. Hope your doing okay. No harm in taking a month of to let your head and body reset. Do something nice for yourself ♥️

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Itonlytakesone · 04/07/2025 15:07

@WishUponAStar4 did you?! Oh I’m so glad you said that i feel awful, was thinking …why am I like this I’m not normally? so you’ve made me feel a bit better! Hopefully it’ll pass. Yes definitely need time out after this. Must be because of my chemical last month then.

WishUponAStar4 · 04/07/2025 15:25

Itonlytakesone · 04/07/2025 15:07

@WishUponAStar4 did you?! Oh I’m so glad you said that i feel awful, was thinking …why am I like this I’m not normally? so you’ve made me feel a bit better! Hopefully it’ll pass. Yes definitely need time out after this. Must be because of my chemical last month then.

I would say it was because of they. I was really low and emotional and had really bad cramps for the full week leading up to my period. I only started to feel like myself again once my period after the chemical was over 😊

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Itonlytakesone · 04/07/2025 15:32

@WishUponAStar4 after the chemical bleeding was light so I’m guessing this is going to be worse. Pray for me🙈

WishUponAStar4 · 04/07/2025 15:48

Itonlytakesone · 04/07/2025 15:32

@WishUponAStar4 after the chemical bleeding was light so I’m guessing this is going to be worse. Pray for me🙈

Yeah my chemical was quite light too. Was really heavy then for 2 days the next time . But find after that.

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WishUponAStar4 · 04/07/2025 19:18

Does anyone take CoQ10?

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tillybud89 · 05/07/2025 16:00

So on 10dpo and used my FRER and a very clear BFN. I knew deep down to get pregnant the first cycle after the mc was clutching a straws but still I am gutted. Had so many twinges and been so constipated which are all simular to how I felt when I fell at Easter. Its like losing the baby all over again. Ergh why is this so hard. Took us 7 months to get pregnant which felt like forever 😢

Ttcaftertfmr · 05/07/2025 16:25

WishUponAStar4 · 04/07/2025 19:18

Does anyone take CoQ10?

I started taking it this cycle… bfn lol but only taking it like 3 weeks, will keep on with it and hopefully it helps!

Ttcaftertfmr · 05/07/2025 16:27

tillybud89 · 05/07/2025 16:00

So on 10dpo and used my FRER and a very clear BFN. I knew deep down to get pregnant the first cycle after the mc was clutching a straws but still I am gutted. Had so many twinges and been so constipated which are all simular to how I felt when I fell at Easter. Its like losing the baby all over again. Ergh why is this so hard. Took us 7 months to get pregnant which felt like forever 😢

feel so much with you!! 12dpo today and nada… really felt like this month could be the one but nope.
im stopping tracking now when AF comes and just going to try and have a fun month with plenty of BD but not doing BBT or LH tests or anything and just hoping it works 🤞🏻✨🌈

tillybud89 · 05/07/2025 17:06

Ttcaftertfmr · 05/07/2025 16:27

feel so much with you!! 12dpo today and nada… really felt like this month could be the one but nope.
im stopping tracking now when AF comes and just going to try and have a fun month with plenty of BD but not doing BBT or LH tests or anything and just hoping it works 🤞🏻✨🌈

Absolutely best way. Ill still roughly track ovulation as its been all over since mc but never do temp anyway as its just to much pressure on myself. Ergh time to just take it was easy as possible and not force anything as anxiety makes it so much worse xxx

Mouche85 · 05/07/2025 17:31

I'm expecting AF after chemical and it's scary. I took a FRER test but not first urine.

I'm similar, I have so many signs, some new (i have a nap every day!), yet negative tests!

I'd be gutted.

WishUponAStar4 · 05/07/2025 17:35

Ttcaftertfmr · 05/07/2025 16:25

I started taking it this cycle… bfn lol but only taking it like 3 weeks, will keep on with it and hopefully it helps!

I might give it a couple of cycles and maybe start it. Have you done much research on it?

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WishUponAStar4 · 05/07/2025 17:38

tillybud89 · 05/07/2025 16:00

So on 10dpo and used my FRER and a very clear BFN. I knew deep down to get pregnant the first cycle after the mc was clutching a straws but still I am gutted. Had so many twinges and been so constipated which are all simular to how I felt when I fell at Easter. Its like losing the baby all over again. Ergh why is this so hard. Took us 7 months to get pregnant which felt like forever 😢

Awh i know. It is so so disheartening seeing those negative tests. It's just wanted so much and there is definitely sensitivity there post miscarriage. There is still time yet. Sometimes implantation might not have even happened yet ♥️♥️

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WishUponAStar4 · 06/07/2025 07:00

10/11 dpo and BFN 😞😞

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tillybud89 · 06/07/2025 08:03

WishUponAStar4 · 06/07/2025 07:00

10/11 dpo and BFN 😞😞

Same here ❤️

WishUponAStar4 · 06/07/2025 09:26

tillybud89 · 06/07/2025 08:03

Same here ❤️

😞 so disheartening

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Alex2022 · 07/07/2025 12:38

Aww I’m so sorry to hear ladies, it’s really not easy 😢😢 my period is 3 days late today but I am on holiday and unsure whether to test or not … I don’t want to get a negative and be upset for the remainder of the week .. also, I want to enjoy myself this week as it could be our last trip for a while! What do you think? Xx

Itonlytakesone · 07/07/2025 12:49

@Alex2022id test today then you can know one way or the other. Do you ‘feel’ pregnant?

im due on today 14dpo I’m still bfn I feel pregnant though sore boobs etc so I’m all sorts of confused. Just want af to start now iv had the crappiest weekend feeling like crap 💩

tillybud89 · 07/07/2025 13:00

@Alex2022id test today. Holiday will bring you round if it's bfn or help at least. Waiting until home could build up expectations. But obviously you know you best 😊
Im 12dpo today and bfn. Boobs sore and cramps so AF is on the way which im ok with if so just want her to get on so we csn start the next cycle lol

Xx

Alex2022 · 07/07/2025 13:20

I don’t feel pregnant per se but I do have some twinging in my tummy, my boobs seem fine though. I am usually 28day cycle & it’s like clock work so this is odd.

@tillybud89maybe you’re right, testing on hol might ease things if a negative! Interesting you and @Itonlytakesoneare feeling the same - it’s not over until it arrives however!

March would be an ideal month! Keeping everything crossed for all left in for this month 🤞

tillybud89 · 07/07/2025 13:27

Alex2022 · 07/07/2025 13:20

I don’t feel pregnant per se but I do have some twinging in my tummy, my boobs seem fine though. I am usually 28day cycle & it’s like clock work so this is odd.

@tillybud89maybe you’re right, testing on hol might ease things if a negative! Interesting you and @Itonlytakesoneare feeling the same - it’s not over until it arrives however!

March would be an ideal month! Keeping everything crossed for all left in for this month 🤞

I literally went on holiday the day after my mc. Was hardest thing to be all good vibes for everyone but as hard as it was coming home to reality it was helpful to be away from everyone. Hope you get on ok. Good luck woth testing if you do xxx

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