8dpo and so gutted even though I know it’s early

[Joleyjojo]

Hi everyone

As the title says . I have tested 8dpo and of course it’s a negative. This has really hit hard and I have just cried so much. 2 chemicals and a MMC in 10 months is a lot. The due date of the MMC is this month and just thought I would be pregnant. My partner has told me we don’t really know and that a negative at 8dpo means nothing. Just so over emotional , no symptoms so just know I’m out. Just haven’t stopped crying xxx

If it helps I had a negative 8dpo and positive by 9! I also had a mmc and chemical before this so I know exactly how you’re feeling, such a rubbish journey xx

Thank you so much for your reply and congratulations such lovely news.
I know that there may still be hope it’s just hard seeing the stark white test, I’m 40 and so worried that we have run out of time and my body is just giving up. I seem to be in this pity party ridiculous. I’m praying to see 2 lines in the nest few days but it’s easier to convince yourself your not than fill your self with hope , just protecting the heart xxxx

I've had an MMC and two chemicals too but over 18 months. It feels like forever. Sending you strength and hope. Fingers crossed that you will get your two lines this month or another soon x

Thank you. BFN today 9dpo so tbh I think it’s over this month. I have 0 symptoms and I just don’t feel pregnant. My period is due on Monday and if my ovulation is correct my LP is bang on 12 days. So I’m not going to test again unless my period doesn’t arrive x