13/14dpo BFN, still no AF. Feeling defeated

[dreamer65]

So, I need some advise please. Has anyone here had a similar situation to this and ended up being pregnant? So First day of my last af was 13/01. I got a positive OPK 3/02, could have ovulated anytime from then to 36 hours later. I’m now on cycle day 37 and still getting BFN. My cycles vary from 31 - 35 days but never longer. (So far) I guess I’m just looking for any hope that I could still be pregnant? I’m well aware I’m probably not 😞 but af is never this late, I just don’t know what to think, it’s so emotionally draining!
any positive stories would be greatly appreciated!

The luteal phase tends to be pretty stable in length for most women, it’s the earlier part of your cycle between the first day of your period and ovulation that can vary, and thus determines the length of your cycle. If you ovulated on the 4th Feb approximately, then you would be 13/14 days post ovulation, if you are testing negative now, I’d be inclined to say that you are not pregnant on this occasion.

But perhaps give it a few days and test again if you haven’t had your period still. It might still be a tad too early. Good luck.

Thankyou so much for replying