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4dpo who's with me?!

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asabee · 01/01/2025 10:36

Trying for baby no 3. Didn't have it planned but DH and I BD on ovulation day so it's gotten me all anxious and excited! Who's with me?!

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AmazeB · 04/01/2025 16:37

I'm 1 dpo trying for baby #1. We DTD on O-1 and O day. Hoping to hold off testing until 10 dpo

Theosmommy2011 · 04/01/2025 17:05

7DPO here. Baby dust to you both ✨ xx

FMc208 · 05/01/2025 16:18

Hi! I’m TTC #2, 5dpo today and started to get the usual spots/headaches before AF 😔 not due until the 14th but I can just feel that I’m out this month.

When are you all planning on testing?

Theosmommy2011 · 05/01/2025 18:04

@FMc208 Hi!
Well I have had ewcm today so think I may have missed ovulation :-(. Cramping yesterday too. When are you testing? Xx

AmazeB · 05/01/2025 18:40

Baby dust to you all! ✨ I'm planning to test around 12dpo provided I can hold out until then... Which will be Jan 15!

overwork · 05/01/2025 18:53

Meeee! Promised myself I wouldn't get all obsessed with it but it's difficult not to isn't it.
Our first was a complete accident so all of this is new to me.
I'm not taking temperature or those ovulations sticks, we're just not preventing if that makes sense.
I'm not sure how accurate it is but according to my app I am 3 days PO, and we only had sex NYE so may have missed it anyway. (Finding time / space alone is difficult for us as our living situation is not ideal currently).

Theosmommy2011 · 07/01/2025 11:05

Hi ladies, how are we all doing? Xx

Mama09876 · 07/01/2025 12:43

Hey! I’m at similar timings around 4/5 DPO. Managed to DTD O-4 & O-2
For some reason I already feel out this month? 🤷🏼‍♀️
Trying for our 2nd this will be approx 4/5 months trying I think.
I’m trying to take the relaxed approach and not stress but if it hasn’t worked this month I’ll be back to BBT/LH sticks etc 😂

Mama09876 · 07/01/2025 12:45

Theosmommy2011 · 05/01/2025 18:04

@FMc208 Hi!
Well I have had ewcm today so think I may have missed ovulation :-(. Cramping yesterday too. When are you testing? Xx

I had CM and pains when I was pregnant with my first so could be a good thing! 🥰

FMc208 · 07/01/2025 13:11

Theosmommy2011 · 05/01/2025 18:04

@FMc208 Hi!
Well I have had ewcm today so think I may have missed ovulation :-(. Cramping yesterday too. When are you testing? Xx

Im supposed to be holding off until 10dpo but I can already feel the itch to test tomorrow even though I’ll only be 8dpo!

Whyyyy do I do it to myself?!

Fingers crossed for you! 🤞🏼

When is everyone else testing?

Theosmommy2011 · 07/01/2025 13:17

@Mama09876 Hey! You're not out until you're out. Plenty of time, I will have my fingers crossed for you.
I think the cramps are just way too strong, I have endo too so feels like it's just flaring early. Tested and just indents so far xx

Theosmommy2011 · 07/01/2025 13:19

@FMc208 it's so hard isn't it lol. I have tested already and just had some severe indents lol. Have attached a pic. Still trying to remain hopeful though xx

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Mama09876 · 07/01/2025 13:27

@Theosmommy2011 you sure they’re indents? Have you got any other makes to test with? The bottom one to me id say is positive 😬

Theosmommy2011 · 07/01/2025 13:33

@Mama09876 I have some other tests coming today so will try with them. I honestly just think it's the tests that I have used. Must be rubbish lol xx

FMc208 · 07/01/2025 16:21

@Theosmommy2011 i think the bottom one looks positive! How many dpo are you?

Theosmommy2011 · 07/01/2025 18:06

@FMc208 I'm either 9 or 10DPO. Took an internet cheapie with lower sensitivity and it was negative. Hopefully next time 🤞 xx

AmazeB · 08/01/2025 03:29

@Theosmommy2011 the last one looks like it could be something! Take another more sensitive test?

Mama09876 · 08/01/2025 10:09

@Theosmommy2011 have you managed to take any more? Interested to know if they were evaps or not cause that last one really does look positive to me.

Mama09876 · 08/01/2025 10:15

How’s everyone feeling today I think I’m roughly 5/6 DPO. Could not sleep last night no matter how hard I tried! I keep looking back on my NC app from my symptoms when I was pregnant with my first and feeling nothing like the symptoms I had then so wondering if it’s a sign I’m out.

The only thing I’ve got a few niggles in my groin and heaviness but that could defo he AF I’m potentially due on anywhere between 13th-17th depending on how my cycles wanna play this month! 😂

Theosmommy2011 · 08/01/2025 10:27

Morning all!
I tested again this morning and felt like something was catching my eye but really hard to capture on camera so could just be me lol. I took another around an hour and a half later as was eager to see if I could see the same thing. Will attach pics. Last one is once they were dry for about 15 mins.

@Mama09876 I had different symptoms each time I got pregnant so don't count yourself out yet. Will keep my 🤞 for you xx

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Mama09876 · 08/01/2025 10:40

@Theosmommy2011 thank you! I think I need to be more positive thinking!

also… I can see faint lines on all of those!! I’m normally shocking at seeing the lines as well but I’m not just saying it I can defo see faint lines.

how many DPO are you again? Sorry if you’ve already said.

Theosmommy2011 · 08/01/2025 10:48

@Mama09876 It is super hard to stay positive on this TTC journey though isn't it? We don't want to get our hopes up for nothing and the disappointment hurts. I have been on this journey for around 2 & 1/2 years now. Last year I just tried to start getting into a more what will be will be mindset and tried to focus more on everything else in my life so it didn't consume me so much. It helps but it is difficult.

Well I'm glad it isn't just me. I can see it clearly with the naked eye which I have never had on these tests. Trying to do a longer hold now so I can try another but it's proving difficult lol xx

Mama09876 · 08/01/2025 10:58

@Theosmommy2011 yess, to me there is certainly something there! Got everything crossed for you.

It really is & you’ve summed up how I’m feeling this month I really don’t wanna get my hopes up and I feel stupid sometimes thinking I’ve got ‘symptoms’ and af arrives. Im on my 5th cycle I think trying for our 2nd.

it must be so difficult trying to stay positive for so long! I’m really hoping this is your month!! 🤍

Theosmommy2011 · 08/01/2025 11:18

@Mama09876 thank you, I hope it happens 🤞. If not, I'm going to plan things for the TWW so I can keep busy and preoccupied instead of focusing on it so much. Felt like giving up and giving in many times but the only way is forward in this game. We are strong for what we endure while TTC'ing.

Forgot to say, my app says 9DPO but going off my usual ovulation indicators I would say 10 or 11DPO xx

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