In limbo, 19dpo with no progression on tests and no AF

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I'm so fed up and confused right now. I have a 13 and 8 year old, both assisted conception with 4 miscarriages on the journey. Didn't expect to be back here again. Didn't plan anymore kids due to the toll TTC had on my MH and now in a blended family with new husband and 4 kids in total.

Unexpected BFP as on the pill and not had any mishaps or missed pills on CD9/10. Line progression stopped around CD 14 and has got a tad darker, tad lighter but no progression since. Have had a 2- 3 weeks on a digi at 14dpo and 17dpo and have pregnancy symptoms such a really sensitive nipples, excess saliva.

Having had 4 losses I know pregnancy tests with no progression I'd bad but in the past they've always got lighter, not just stayed the same. Anyone had similar. My tests have mainly been clear and simple ones from B&M.

It may not help but I didn’t get any line progression for one of my pregnancies, didn’t have bad morning sickness with her, had spotting, sore boobs and a metallic taste in my mouth but my lines never got really really dark and she’s here, healthy and happy. My miscarriage I had multiple dye stealers and really dark tests. With my son, I had dark tests very quickly and I had strong symptoms very early on. I believe it also matters what time of day the test is taken, how much fluids you have had etc. I think the only way you could put yourself at ease is by getting your blood taken to see if your levels are rising correctly. Pregnancy is worrying, and it’s even worse after loss so please be kind to yourself, I know it can be really difficult as you really want to enjoy this moment but are consumed by anxiety. I know it’s easier said than done but I think it may help to stop taking pregnancy tests. You are pregnant, right now, and your lines have definitely got darker from the photos. Congratulations - wishing you a healthy happy pregnancy. 💜

I think your tests look great. There's definite progression there, especially when you look at every second day. I know how anxious a time these early weeks are, especially when you've experienced loss. I honestly think your tests look very promising though xx

All I can see are good BFP's, congratulations

Thanks everyone. Started bleeding this morning unfortunately x

Is it just spotting or heavier? Sorry to hear this OP.
Take care

It's heavy bleeding, I didn't have a great feeling with the tests fluctuating between darker and lighter so I was trying to prepare myself for this. Thank you