2dpo today, company welcome :)

[lockdownbabyx]

Morning all ☺️. Was waiting to join a thread until I was post ovulation. Currently 2dpo on our 3rd cycle TTC, first cycle we had an early miscarriage. I already have 2 DC and now we're trying for our last ☺️

Would love some company to help each other get through the next few days xx

Well, with my background, I would think that AF is more possible.. but just time will tell..

Background: this is my third cycle off Nuva Ring.. the first cycle was 24 days length, the second 21 days length.. today I'm in CD24 🫠 the first two cycles I did not control ovulation so I don't know how kind my LP is, if I have a normal LP, AF should come on Monday or Tuesday.. but if I have a short LP it could come anytime, including tomorrow for example, what would make my cycle 24 days exactly as long as the first one.. but as I have read, implantation bleeding can also happen in 9 dpo, which I am today, so I'll have to wait..

Also another fact, maybe TMI, so girls, beware and don't read further if you don't minke TMI 😂😂 the last two times before AF I got one day of spotting, beginning light and then getting darker until AF was fully there.. when I checked my cervix with my fingers after some hours of spotting, they came out with blood, and so I confirmed am AF would come the next day.. now I checked my cervix and it just came out with CM.. but this was the first spot that I had, not even in my underwear but in the paper while wiping.. if I wipe again in some hours and see some pink blush I'll check my cervix again and see how it looks like.. but as I said, i suspect AF is coming! But I hope it is really the implantation bleeding 🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼

And sorry for the long text!

So hard, it really is! I feel like it's consuming my thoughts at the moment! Not being as productive as I could be at work that's for sure! I'm still having pulling sensations/mild cramps and all seem to be on the left hand side (which I think is the side I ovulated on... I should have made a note!) but it could just be my mind playing tricks on me!

Don't apologise for being lengthy! This is a safe space to share this stuff! Sounds promising for sure, will keep fingers crossed for you! Do you notice if your cervix changes position at all? I've read all sorts about cervix position and firmness at different stages in the cycle, but I swear mine never changes!!

@MummyV2021 this is the first cycle checking my cervix, and yes, I think I have noticed the changes.. directly in the beginning after the period it was really low and firm.. I could feel it without even introducing my whole finger.. then it kept going higher and higher until Ovulation day, which was super high super soft and open.. when I say super soft I mean really extreme super soft.. after that it came lower to a medium position and medium softness and the last two days it has been between medium and high in the position.. a little bit open though

I would recommend to check always at the same time and every day if you're checking for the first time, so you can compare what means high, medium, low, soft and hard for you.. and I've noticed that is better to check in the evening, cause in the early morning the cervix is anyways always high

Interesting, I might try that next cycle if this cycle isn't my time! Although I swear even during ovulation my cervix was low and firm... I can always feel it very easily! But maybe I'm not being consistent enough to spot the differences

Got my fingers crossed for you @pcbrb hope it's implantation related x

Thanks! But was not implantation related ☹️

I'm out :( AF showed this morning so my new cycle starts today! I will stay around anyways, to see all the BFO that I know will be in this group 🥰🥰🥰 good luck to the ones that are still not out ✨🤞🏼

Really sorry lovely, hope you get your bfp next month. This ttc is so unpredictable. Hope you get to do something nice for yourself this weekend x

10 dpo and bfn on an easy@ home this morning
Premom says my period is due today but I think it’s reacted to the fact my last cycle was unusually short.. my other app says Monday
Going to try and wait until Monday if AF doesn’t come over the weekend but I’ve been having worse cramps so I’m not overly hopeful
Good luck to everyone still waiting and sorry to those who are in the next cycle.. hopefully we get our bfp soon!

@pcbrb really sorry to hear that! Fingers crossed this next cycle is your cycle!

@Confusedmermaid1 I'm in a similar boat to you... 11DPO today, due AF Monday. Got a BFN again this morning so will probably not test again until Monday now! I know I'm still not out but it feels like I am!

@MummyV2021 literally 10 mins after posting AF had arrived 🙄 it’s so annoying because I checked before ‘wasting’ a test 🙈
Keeping my fingers crossed for you!

Hi Ladies, same for me this morning 11 DPO AND bfn. Feeling really heavy down below since last night feel AF is on its way.

Morning all, 10dpo today and this is my line progression so far. It's looking good thankfully. I may take a digital later today or tomorrow. My boobs are feeling quite sore and I just feel very tired, even though I had a good nights sleep last night!

My anxiety has kicked in now though, I had 5 MC before conceiving my 2 children and then I had another MC back in August.

Really sorry to those that have had AF arrive, TTC is so so hard 😢. Really hope you all get your BFP next cycle 🤞🏼 xx

@Confusedmermaid1 really sorry to hear that! So annoying timing wise with the test too. Fingers crossed for this cycle!

@lockdownbabyx that line progression is looking good!! Keep us posted with any other tests. I don't think there's any way to escape the anxiety after any number of losses is there 😔 sending lots of baby dust your way and hope this ones a sticky one for you!

Really sorry @Confusedmermaid1 hoping next month is a better month for you x

@lockdownbabyx that's a good line progression! Really sorry for all your losses and totally understandable about the anxiety. Have you told anyone IRL yet?

I'm roughly 8dpo today, I know it's early but had to get the poas urge out of the way with an obvious bfn. I'll be very surprised if this month works as we only dtd 3/4 days before ovulation but let's see.

How's everyone doing today? I'm 12dpo today and got another BFN. AF due Monday so pretty sure this isn't my cycle. I'm not going to test again now until Tuesday if AF doesn't come as the testing is driving me mad!

10/11dpo today and was so hopeful because I have tender boobs and never get that with AF. Tested with a cheapie and also early boots test and BFN. Disappointed and so sick at squinting at tests (my own fault I know for testing early) feel like Im out now because it was an early detection test and stark white

It's hard not to feel that way isn't it?! Obviously implantation can happen as late as 12dpo and after that it takes 48 hours for HCG to be detectable so not 100% out but hard not to think of it that way. Still early days for you so you never know! Sending baby dust xx

@MummyV2021 Yes its so hard, I suppose we both just have to wait a few more days. Im the most impatient person 🤣 and just torturing myself with tests. I have one boots 5 day eatly test left, Im gona try my best not to use it until monday and then if its negative I have to give this cycle up

We've got this! And if this isn't our cycle at least we can both try and keep each other sane in the next one!!

9dpo bfn 😥

Still time for you yet 🤞🏼

Thank you @MummyV2021 I'm struggling with this waiting. I've bought many frers for each morning. How are you all getting on?

@MummyV2021 Yes exactly. I had a busy day so it almost went out of my head for a while. Hoping momday comes around fast and ill do my last test