TTC buddies after chemical baby#1

[Heartypandaa]

Hello ladies,

I had a chemical pregnancy last cycle, and a miscarriage earlier this year.
I was reading a really nice thread about the same subject and all the ladies had their BFP :D
I was hoping to creat a new thread for anyone on the same boat.
Would love for you to join this thread so we can support each other's.

Hey there @Heartypandaa I'd love to join, had a miscarriage 2 weeks ago. It was our 1st pregnancy so feeling a bit lost waiting on my cycle returning. Did yours take long after you miscarriage? We want to let 1 cycle pass then hope to start trying again December or January! Would love to support everyone on similar journeys and send lots of well wishes everyones way!

Hello @Jess1066 îm so sorry for you loss :(
How are you holding on??It s must be so hard i know dear 😔

I haven't had a full cycle since the chemical pregnancy (3 weeks ago). As for the miscarriage i remember it took me 6 weeks to get my period back.
I've heard women are more fertile after a loss, i didn't start right away after my first MC, so i cant comment on that, but this time around i wont wait for my cycle to return, so only time will tell if this is true. 🤞🏻

May i ask How many weeks were u when you miscarried ?

@Heartypandaa we are getting there good days and bad! We were 9 weeks when we miscarried! Just patiently waiting for my cycle to return but hopeful that it will soon, done a test and the line is very faint so think within the next week it should be negative.

Yes I had heard that too regarding fertility! I really hope everything goes as planned for you this month! How are you feeling about it all?

Hey! Would love to join also. TTC baby number one after my first pregnancy ended in a missed miscarriage. Also have PCOS the most irregular peroid. However, metformin has helped! X

Hello @Jess1066 you are welcome to join. I'm sorry for you loss dear, i've been there, the roller coaster of emotions, nobody prepares you for that unfortunately. How far were you? And how long has it been since the MC?

@Jess1066 oh lovely, my heart goes out to you ❤️‍🩹.
I am doing just fine, i'm trying to stay positive and saw many success stories of women who conceived within the 3 months following the CP/MMC/MC so i'm holding hope.
Also i want to diminish the stress i go through each cycle during the tww, i feel that doesn't play in my favor.

Sorry, my mistake i wanted to tag @CJHR18 in the first part of my post 🙏🏻

@Heartypandaa I was 7 weeks! It's been about 3 months now. Took me a while to get in the right head space to try again! Sorry you've been through it too. Definitely the shittest club to be a part of xx

@CJHR18 oh dear ❤️‍🩹 i also waited a while before feeling myself again, the hormones played a huge part, i felt bipolar 🤦🏻‍♀️!
But hey at least we are not alone in this club, and many of us end up having successfull pregnancy afterwards, we need to keep faith and not lose hope, i do believe strongly that our mindset play a big role in this 💪🏼
Are you ttc right now or not yet?

@CJHR18 I'm so sorry to hear of you loss too! It's defintely the worse club to be in but I'm glad that we have a way to connect and share stories! Reading people's success stories has really helped me try have a positive mindset!

@Heartypandaa yes from reading different threads on here I have saw many people going on to have their rainbow babies after having a CP/MMC/MC and it has give me hope that good things will come after a dark period! Hopefully we can be a good outlet for you during the tww! Where are you currently in your cycle?

@Jess1066 thank u lovely, hope you get your rainbow baby around the holidays too ❤️‍🩹
I'm currently CD21, dunno about when i ovulate or even if i did, as the cycle might be thrown off right after CP. so i have zero pressure to test what so ever, i'm ganna try and wait and see. As you said let's keep our hopes up🤞🏻

How are you all doing girls @Jess1066 and @CJHR18 ?

@Heartypandaa I'm doing okay had a bit of a off weekend, think everything hit me and I realised I hadn't processed the loss fully! But I'm feeling much more positive today and finally tested negative on a pregnancy test so hoping my cycle will come back soon! Hope you are keeping well too! How are you doing?

@CJHR18 I hope you are keeping okay as well! 💕

Happy you re feeling better today. And glad you had your negative so you can start the next cycle.
I think We never quite recover from a loss, and it s oky you felt that way over the weekend.

Im doing oky, i am having mixed signals from my cycle, not sure if i ovulated or not. But this does take off the stress of knowing where AF is due and thus when to test. So i am just hanging in there to be honest.

Hiya girls!

Sorry I've been to work today. Oh to be a millionaire 🤣🤣 In the dread tww. Ovulating for me is a win in itself though xx

Currently going through a CP, I'm heartbroken xx but will be ttc again as soon as we can, even though I'm even more nervous/scared now after this

I'm so sorry :( CP are the worst, the joy is snatched from you so quickly. I had one last cycle. Take your time to process everything. Wishing you a well recovery. You are definitely not alone in this, and many of us experience CPs without even noticing.
The pain does get better ❤️‍🩹

Hi all. TTC #1 second cycle. Last month I had a positive test 11DPO, the next day it was negative. Don’t know if it was a CP or dodgy test but I felt so ill. As soon as my period came all the symptoms disappeared. Not sure what happened, but anxious to test too early this time Xx

Was the test very faint? Have u done other tests or only one?
I always confirm my tests with a blood work to be sure.
Honestly from all i read it's very common for women to have CPs and many women are unaware of them. Mine lasted 3 days and my hcg level were soo low.

Thank you so much xxx I'm a bit suprised by how much pain I'm in it's like really bad period pains. emotionally I'm a wreck and can't see myself able to go to work tomorrow. Hopefully we will have some better luck next time xx

Hi everyone. I have one son who just turned 7. I had chemical pregnancies in June, August & October this year. Just got a faint line today at 9dpo, so fingers 🤞

I'm sorry for you losses :(
I can see you line at 9dpo this is promising 💫 wishing you a good line evolution

@Applecrumble9 can you take sick day? Take a good care of urself ❤️‍🩹

Thank you. Fingers crossed. After 3 early losses, you are just so on edge waiting for it to happen again x

@EmTTC2 may i ask you about your previous losses? At what dpo did u get your first faint line ?
I got mine at 17pdo which wasnt promising and i right to suspect a CP

June bfp at 11dpo. August bfp at 13dpo & October bfp at 11dpo