2dpo buddies please join!!

[LLLTB]

Hey im currently 2dpo today so looking for buddies to go along with as the wait till test time is sooo long!!!

This will be my 3rd but havent been actively trying 😂 had an accident with husband around fertile window then was like fuck it and we did it 4 more times over my fertile window 😂 we would be more than happy so thought we'd just go with it.

No symptoms yet

I’ve got everything crossed for you all that it’s just too early to show up on tests yet.

I’m 10dpo today and haven’t tested yet. No symptoms really, just the odd very mild stomach ache

@Figtree11 I wish I had your strength! I'm 9dpo and been testing since 6dpo

@JoMummyJessica usually I’d be testing, but I just don’t think I can deal with the disappointment anymore. I find it puts me in a terrible mood so trying to see if waiting til AF arrives makes me feel any better!

That's reason I didn't want to test but I just can't help myself but every morning I get the bfn I'm just down so makes tww even harder I think I'm going to try hold off till thu, af due Sunday x

I have the premom test strips and they keep throwing me because they have these huge indent lines on everyone 😭 keeps making me think theres a faint line but there isnt as i can see the indent when i angle it to the side.

So fed up just want af to come or a faint line. Im going to have to bin the premom tests tho, might go boots to get some others instead.

Decided to do my last cheapie tonight before bed, held wee in for around 2 hours (I'm going a lot)
I'm sure it's just my eyes but don't know how to take this test, pretty sure negative but just want some opinions, I know lighting is bad so bad photo so can't see much but can see something with naked eye

I’m not sure I can see that @JoMummyJessica Have you done another today?

@Figtree11 not today, I'm trying to give myself a break, AF due Sunday so going to hold off till sat at least! Got frers coming today so giving them to my oh to make sure I'm not tempted!
Cramping and everything has pretty much stopped now so thinking just PMS but we will see!
When are you thinking of testing? Are u 11 dpo today?

How many dpo are you @JoMummyJessica ?
Yeah I’m 11dpo today - not had any symptoms so not holding out much hope really so don’t think I am going to test

I'm 10 dpo today, one app says af due sat and one says sun so unsure, flo app is normally spot on which says due Sunday, only start other app this month so prob hasn't picked up my cycles yet!

@JoMummyJessica mine says due Friday, but it won’t be accurate, as I’m on a 45+ day cycle due to irregularity over my last loss and have no normal to follow which is frustrating

@Figtree11 I was same after my losses, took a while to get back regular! My last loss was May and this time got regular within few months (this is first month ttc after that loss) first loss I was all over the place for nearly a year!
I feel deflated today, cramps I was getting at 8/9dpo have completely gone and I don't feel anything! Maybe rolling to Nov cycle for me 😪

@JoMummyJessica thanks for sharing about your cycles, I’ve been worrying about mine but it’s good to know it hasn’t just been me! 1st loss was November but I did manage to get pregnant in Feb even being irregular. Then 2nd loss was May & a partial molar so hormone levels were really high so I’m still trying to regulate after that.
I’m sorry you’re feeling down. I am too. I have no symptoms at all, and there has been yet another pregnancy announcement at work today. Feel it’s a matter of time until AF shows

@Figtree11 my loss was may, started to bleed day before my dd 5th birthday!
It's so heartbreaking isn't it! My loss this year was quite early around 6 weeks so dr said prob get back to normal quite quickly and they did compared to my other loss which was in 2020! I'm 40 in Feb so we are kind of at last try, we have said try till then and if doesn't happen it's meant to be (although hard to come to terms with that) in my mind and heart our family isn't complete but I know there are people out there who haven't got any children so I count my self lucky with our dd x

@JoMummyJessica I’m sorry you’ve had losses too. It’s the worst thing I’ve been through. I don’t have any kids yet, but always knew I wanted 2, so I totally get how you must feel. Especially when you want it so badly. I really hope it does end up being a successful month for you 🤞🏻

@Figtree11 same for you, sending baby dust for our rainbow babies x

I feel for you ladies that had had losses i cant imagine how hard it is 🙁 but im hoping you will get your positives soon!

Negative test for me today, but im not sure about my actual dpo anymore. Boobs are heavy and feel full just like when i was breastfeeding my daughter's.
Just been to the loo and wiped saw blood and thought it was af but now im looking at the colour and i have never seen it that colour 🤨 its very very light pink im so confused! Anyone had implantation bleeding before? I never had it with either of my previous, but what im looking at is whats on google for implantation appearance.

Guess if it gets heavier and turns red then its af, if it says light and pink for a few days they i might still be in 🤷‍♀️

@LLLTB I've never had any implantation bleeding with any of my pregnancies so unsure, but I do believe there r some pics if u google.
BFN for me this morning at 11 dpo so think I'm out as I feel af due any day, I'm due Sunday so think she is going to make an appearance early!
I'm hoping it is implantation bleeding for u, fingers crossed 🤞

Best of luck @JoMummyJessica and @Figtree11 . I had two losses (although one was a chemical and I was expecting it to end after about a week + of very faint lines that never improved) between DC1 and DC2 and I do remember my cycles being all over the place for a very long time especially after the one that needed surgery. I got pregnant with DC2 after the chemical, and used that as my period date and when the midwife found that out I got rushed in for an early scan because they didn’t trust my dates at all.

I did find there was a slight positive in it all though that I couldn’t obsess quite as much as I am doing now about exactly how many days past ovulation I was and when exactly to test, because I didn’t know. More like trying would have been back before we had at home tests. I hate what having the super sensitive tests and the apps and too much knowledge does to me really, I have no patience at all.

@LLLTB I’ve had implantation bleeding once, and it was so heavy I actually marked it as a (light) period and didn’t think anything of it.. so honestly, you can never tell!

I am now officially late on my period so this makes me feel even more stupid for testing (and getting very upset!) on Friday, which would have been really, very early assuming I ovulated a day or two later than I thought. I don’t have any tests left and I feel like ordering some more will just cause my period to arrive.

@Thistimearound morning it is a-bit heavier overnight and bit redded in Colour so im taking it as af now. Good luck to the rest of you.

Just been silly and took another wondfo test and I'm sure I see something but again prob my eyes!

I can see something. How many DPO are you?

I'm 11 dpo i think, got peak opk 12 days ago so could be 11 or 10 dpo, af due sunday/sat as I'm every 28/29 days! X

I can see something in one of those photos. The first one. It must be infuriating for you!

As for me, I’m increasingly annoyed. My cycle is 24-26 days, usually 26 days, and I’m now on day 27 (hasn’t ever happened on the app I’ve been using for a few years whilst not trying until this month). I wish I hadn’t used my tests up already. I have tempted fate and ordered some more but that’ll probably be tomorrow evening. I could run out and get some but that would be with kids and at least one of them is old enough to read what I’m buying and know exactly what it means, so I won’t!

Given that my last negative was on Monday with FMU and on a FRER, so as good as it gets, I’m thinking my chances are low and I’m having a glass of wine.

Are you still holding out and not testing @Figtree11 ?