4dpo tomorrow! Anyone else? :)

[lockdownbabyx]

Hey all, 4po tomorrow! Would love company to make the days go quicker 😁

Cycle 2 TTC after an early MC last month! DP works nights so trying this month wasn't great timing wise. We managed to BD 5 and 2 days before ovulation so I'm hoping it's enough.

Xx

Thank you @Marie1990x !

I also had a faint line on 10 or 11DPO with first and only on 11 or 12DPO it was for sure visible without much effort, but still faint.

b@MyGardenDaisies oh sorry lovely 😢 BUT we are all still in it…i’m really really trying to have my positive head on today! we are all still super early and who knows… I can’t test till Monday earliest now, i don’t think i can cope with any negatives over the weekend i’m just going to try enjoy it!

@AmberM223 same! I actually don’t have a chance to test before Monday unless I bring my tests with me this weekend
away, so I’m gonna leave them at home and enjoy a weekend.

Well im 9pdo and have a shadow. i'm comparing to my stark whites and its so light i cant get a good enough pic but i swear there is something. Even if i did get a pic It's dry now so not very reliable! Last 2 days ive had some Nausea, back ache, a constact feeling of not feeling right? If im not, honestly the mind plays the craziest tricks 😂

@AmberM223 @MyGardenDaisies thats good you can’t test until Monday, will keep you sane if they’re out of sight.

Still waiting for my progesterone blood results 🙄. They’re usually on my app super early the next day. Hoping I don’t have to wait til Monday

Oooohhh fingers crossed for you!! Eeeek exciting!

@JMassey ohh fingers crossed it gets to BFP !

@Marie1990x yeah I thought that too, but mine seems like quite a bit dip? I'm not sure. Have everything crossed 🤞🏼

I’m not familiar with the temperature testing - do you just take any way at the same time each day? Like could I just use an ear termometer?

@MyGardenDaisies I'm not sure how accurate the ear ones are. It's recommended to use a Basal thermometer, just be the first thing you do as soon as you wake up. If you have an Apple Watch that takes your temperature I think you can use this too.

I mainly use it to confirm I've ovulated as it's the most accurate way xx

@lockdownbabyx oh really I didn’t knee about Apple Watch , I’ll have a look.

I’ve been really down since this morning’a test. I know if still might be positive eventually or even if it’s next month, I’ll look back and think “oh wow it took us only 3 months”, but in the moment it just feels like so much effort with timed intercourse, supplements, tracking, testing, throwing money at it, being in tune with the body, etc. I honestly bow down to those who have been trying for a long time, let alone for multiple children.
so lucky to have my baby with first try and none of this the first time round

I see something!!

Gosh you ladies started early today 😂 I can't keep up with you all. To those that have tested BPN, please stay hopeful it's still early days! I'm trying to remain as positive as possible. I haven't tested today but woke up with more spotting this morning that seems to have eased off again, I'm not testing, rather stay with the hope for now and not depress myself seeing the negative.

call me crazy, but being at home and in my own head I stupidly decided to do another test (god help me). I’m probably seeing things, and please feel free to bring me back down to earth, but I’m sure I can see the faintest of faint shadows.
Not taking it as anything as it’s these dodgy boots strip tests that barely show a test line but it’s spurred me on a bit 😅

I definitely see what you see! 100% test again in the morning (or later today 🤣)

I just had some more cheap tests be delivered (one step) but I literally went to the loo about 20 mins before they arrived so wasn't a very long hold. BFN of course x

@MMarie1990x I see it too, but it also looks abit grey? Could it be evap? I'm also at home working but I'm doing so well not to cave. @lolockdownbabyx try a better hold?

@OverthinkingBrain yeah I will probably try again later. I don't know why I'm being so obsessive 🤦🏻‍♀️ I'm usually quite good. In my head I KNOW it's still super early. I've been crampy the last could have days and sensitive boobs so I'm just prayinnnnnng.

You have done well not to test, at least one of us is sensible 😂. X

I knew downloading this test checker wouldn't go down well 😂 I'm now convincing myself there is something there.
God help me

@lockdownbabyx haha I have one steps on their way too; due to be delivered at 1:30 so trying not to pee til then as we all know I won’t hold off 😂.

@OverthinkingBrain in 99.9% sure it’s just an evap but that doesn’t stop me overanalysing haha 😂

I don't know if this helps or makes it worse to see...you just need do a good hold and try again so atleast you've held for 3 hours...or just not test now until Monday if you can hold off?

@MMarie1990x I guess if you are going to test then good idea to have a good hold. @loclockdownbabyx I don't think I'm being sensible, works just been super full on this morning so it's not been thinking about it but I might test tomorrow morning, think I'll be 9dpo then.

@OverthinkingBrain I will do another one in a few hours. I would love to hold off until Monday but it is unlikely.. considering my plan was to not test until Saturday at the earliest 🤣. Nevermind, I'm still optimistic. I just feel like something is happening xx

Yeah 9dpo is a good starting point I think! It's good you have been busy. I haven't the last 2 days so that's why I've been more obsessive about it than normal 🫣

I don't see the harm in testing aslong as it doesn't get you down. I tested too much last month and just found myself getting disappointed and abit too obsessed so I'm really just trying to hold off. I've had abit more spotting too just so I don't know if it's good or bad but I just don't want know yet 😂

@OverthinkingBrain Yeah I think I’m just used to the BFN’s now so it doesn’t really affect me 😂.

Getting a little ahead of myself because I was excited about actually getting a peak 😂