Feeling really down this afternoon (made much worse by a friend just announcing her pregnancy after 1 month of "trying".)
We are a same sex couple meeting a donor who lives 3 hours away every month and inseminating twice around peak. We have tried for 8 months now. I had a vfl in February so maybe chemical but nothing since. In fact, my most recent month I spotted right from 6dpo until AF. Totally unusual???
No idea where to go from here, do we keep trying as we are or do I go to my GP and ask for tests? Do I diet and try again to lose weight? (my BMI is 31)
Seems everyone else I speak to got pregnant by now if they were going to naturally and it's so much more pressure and financial commitment having a donor involved. I'd appreciate any wisdom or experiences of others conceiving their first. Thank you ✨