9+ months ttc age 36, any positive experiences or tips please? 💜

[Ladyinpink1]

Hello, I started ttc in September 2022, so have now been ttc for about 20 months. I am 36.

I got pregnant quite quickly in 2022 then lost it in the December, then pregnant again in the May/June last year but lost it again in August, since then I am now going onto cycle 10 with nothing. I do already have 2 children so this is ttc a third child. I use bbt and opks but have also tried "relaxed cycles" with no tracking.

I do understand many ladies have been trying alot longer than me with no children and so I could have it alot worse, but for me personally, it's been very tough.

Has anyone had a similar story and a positive outcome or even any tips? Thank you very much in advance xx

It took me and DH over a year. We were just about to start talking to the GP about testing and then I tested positive in February this year. Just had my 20 week scan

Im 38 and it’s our first

Hi @BC2603 congratulations, that's lovely that it all worked out. Did you do anything differently the cycle that worked for you? x

@Ladyinpink1 thank you. Nothing massively different but perhaps the fact that we had sort of relaxed and given up ‘trying’ just made a better environment. We took all pressure off in December and January (Xmas and birthdays) then were going to head to GP so just had no stress.

I’m on month 12 here and I’m 39
had all my bloods done and all looking good so maybe just taking a bit longer

Sorry you have waited so long @MrBigsCat thank you for commenting, I hope you get good news before long. x