TTC 12 months + (2nd baby).

[Polkadots458]

Hello,

I had a baby in 2019 (conceived first month) and got pregnant last year but unfortunately miscarried at 9 weeks (conceived in second month).
We have been trying since then with no luck. This is cycle 12.

Im just losing hope, and finding it so so hard!! Is anyone in a similar boat? Or anyone have any positive stories/similar stories?

I’m just so desperate now and every month is getting harder.

I’ve had private bloods, and thyroid check which is all fine. My husband is also fine. We are both 29. The GP isn’t interested as says aside from tests we’ve had done privately, they can’t do anything anyway which I understand - but I don’t really know where I go from here. They just told me it takes a while and to make sure we are having sex…. 🙃😂.

🙏🏻

1st time around i fell pregnant on the pill - just as we got married (literally missed one pill) the 2nd time around we were on month 13 of actively trying … i just found out my sister was accidentally pregnant and we’d agreed that actually maybe the 2nd wasn’t going to happen and to focus on other things - then boooom pregnant!! I think the whole lack of trying and lack of stress helped… my husband said my body did it out of spite hahah

Hi @Polkadots458 have you got any updates? I'm on month 12 TTC baby 2 and I think I need to start making peace with having one amazing DC!

Hello @Fairy0708

I am actually currently 6.5 weeks pregnant. I fell on the 15th cycle so please don’t give up hope 🙏🏻. I’ve no idea why it’s taken so long but we’ve got there in the end and have an early scan booked for 8 weeks which I’m counting down to.
Hang on in there and don’t give up - sending you loads of luck and I hope it’s your turn really soon 🍀

@Polkadots458 ah that's amazing news! Congratulations. I hope it all goes well 🙏 thanks so much. I'm hanging on here and hoping it doesn't take too much longer!