I'm on cycle 1 of TTC my second. We always wanted a big -ish age gap of 4ish years, but because of various factors we left it a bit long and this cycle would be our last chance to have an exact 4 year gap. I'm on CD14 and usually ovulate CD16 - we're going away to stay with friends tomorrow until Monday, so the plan was to DTD tonight and Monday to try and have some sort of chance. But my DH is on his way back from a work thing and telling me he's really tired. Ugh it's been over 4 years since we tried for my 1st kid and I forgot the stress of trying to squeeze in DTD around a busy life.