1dpo - Anyone want to join part 2

[Ella31]

Just continuing on from our previous thread. I'll try to include everyone. Apologies if I miss a few and feel free to tag anyone I havent.

@Ncl31
@narwhalsarereal
@Beanie14
@2BabyOrNot2Baby
@CadoAvo
@Objectiontime
@Om0
@Libbynznz
@BabyBorn
@Bananaboat24
@lifeisawillow3
@Negangirlxx
@Westsussex
@Fingerscrossed88
@Happygolucky1234
@Llr2023
@Daisychain27
@MrsStormTrooper
@midnights0
@Brianna4kd
@Om0
@MamaBee23
@meepthebeep

I'm so so sorry

Really disappointed for you @Ncl31

Hope everyone else is doing ok too.

So I've news today. I got accepted into the hse [irish equivalent of nhs] fertility hub. They are going to run a few tests for me. They said that the trauma of what's happened to me and oh has likely impacted conceiving mentally and this will rule out hopefully any physical internal issues as despite the seriousness of our loss, I can't accept something isnt wrong with me. I'm so shocked as I didn't think I'd be accepted but apparently our case is unique. I got the forms today and should have my first appointment in the next few weeks.

That's sounds exciting for you in the sense you might get some answers and support.

I'm expecting everything to be ruled as ok, hoping it relieves my mind.

@Ncl31 I'm so sorry. Please be kind to yourself ❤️

That's great @Ella31! Completely understandable that you feel the way you do. Hopefully this will give you the answers to any questions or concerns you have. Wishing you lots of luck! X

Thank you. I think it will be fine but I need the reassurance. How are you getting on?

@narwhalsarereal did you ovulate

@Ella31 Completely get that, hopefully things move along quickly and nicely for you. It's awful not knowing and waiting around with anything, so I think you're doing amazingly considering the circumstances. You've got this 😊

My spotting on Saturday night actually turned into heavier bleeding on Sunday - we went to EPU and they did everything they needed to and came to the conclusion that I wasn't actively miscarrying but it's something to keep an eye on and that it looks as if I just have a very sensitive cervix in which almost anything and everything can kick off bleeding 🙃 have had it a few more times through the week but trying not to get in my head about it as we're back there for another scan on Monday morning just to make sure everything is okay with baby and that things have progressed. It's sooo hard to keep distracted though! Just a few more days to go now 😬

I didn't test for ovulation. I've taken the month off TTC completely. DP is stressed at work & we've got a lot going on, it just seems the right time to have a break and get rid of one stress at least.

Apologies I'm sure you said this already. How are you feeling about that? Hopefully the break will do you good xx

@Ella31 I'm so split about it. I think it'll do me good to not have 14 days of wondering and obsessing about it but then you can't help but think could this have been the month.
Also as I'm 37 soon, that worries me as I don't want to be getting any older.
Hopefully next month we'll be back to it

I think taking space to clear your head is absolutely fine, also one month is only one month. Definitely take the break if it helps. Wouldn't it be nice not to worry about ttc for 30 days. You'll be fresh and ready to go again.

9dpo bfn today

@2BabyOrNot2Baby I'm so sorry for my late reply, I've had a rough few days and never spotted this. Im so relieved everything I'd ok and it's good they are aware of this and scanning you again. How are you today?

No need to apologise! Sorry to hear that, I hope you're doing better now 🥰
I'm not doing too bad today. Had a busy few days so just trying to relax, but also keep myself busy so tomorrow comes faster 🙈 hope you and all the other lovely ladies here are all alright xx

8dpo today. Not gonna bother testing I’m just gonna wait for AF. I’m loosing hope so I’m just not letting myself get excited about it now.
Hope you’re ok @Ella31 and @2BabyOrNot2Baby

Thanks @Beanie14 af came yesterday at 10dpo. I'm mentally exhausted at this point. I hope you have good news in a few days

Thank you lovely, much better today. Thankfully this morning's scan showed no problems so can finally put those worries out of my mind now.

Completely understandable not allowing yourself to feel that, hopefully you get a good outcome this month. Sending lots of luck! X

So sorry, take the next few days to treat yourself to something nice and try to get some decent rest in x

So happy to hear that for you. Xx

That’s great news

I got a BFP today.. i thought they was indent lines at first but did another one and a digi. I think I'm 11 dpo but I'm not sure as my ovulation tests was all over the place this month. I've had 4 miscarriages and haven't been pregnant since December so I'm in shock right now! I've had to cancel my tattoo for tomorrow too 🤣 praying this one sticks ...

Congratulations that's amazing ❤️