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TTC after miscarriage TWW

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Eatsleepbakerepeat · 28/02/2024 20:53

Hello!!!!
I am about 6dpo and had a miscarriage late December early January, we decided to start trying again right away so waiting to see what this month brings

Wondering if anyone else Is in their TWW ATM?
Already symptom sporting like mad which is insane

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chillimjd1 · 03/03/2024 11:43

Hope yous don’t mind me jumping on. Currently in my TWW and not telling anybody this time. Had an early MC start of last month and can’t bare sharing my TTC journey with people I know this time :(

@Eatsleepbakerepeat how are you getting on? I’m 9dpo, so we’re at a similar point in our TWW! I’m due on in 2 days, but my app may be off as I still haven’t had a period since my MC. Sending baby dust ❤️

jellyfish2 · 03/03/2024 13:37

Brookes19 · 01/03/2024 10:56

@Bey I think I ovulated on the 19th! But I don't track ovulation so it's all just a guessing game. I did have some EWCM which makes me think I did, but I'm basing it all off miscarriage bleed as start of cycle. I've heard of some people ovulating 2 weeks after so I'm hoping I am one of those lucky ones 🤞 or maybe I'm not at all and will have to wait and see if AF turns up and try again next month. I still can't get my head around not being pregnant anymore and it all I can think about 😩

I'm exactly the same as you! I can't get over not being pregnant. It's been 3 weeks and 3 days since my surgery. We only dtd once around the 2 week mark. I have been doing opks for the last week but all negative and no ewcm so don't even know if I've ovulated. Yesterday and today I've had tummy cramps and lower back pain so thought my period would maybe come earlier for to the miscarriage but nothing yet. Wish it would hurry up as I very much doubt I'm pregnant again.

Brookes19 · 03/03/2024 15:24

@jellyfish2 hope you are doing OK 🩷 I had my medical management the same day as your surgery so we are on exactly the same timeline! I'm really not sure if I ovulated. I feel like I did, but it was only 2 days after bleeding stopped I'm not even sure if that's possible! Hoping we both get there soon 🙏 x

jellyfish2 · 03/03/2024 15:29

@Brookes19 I'm not sure if I have either, at this point I'd just like my period to come so that I can start again. I hate this limbo! Hopefully we're both pregnant again soon x

Eatsleepbakerepeat · 03/03/2024 20:19

Bey · 03/03/2024 08:44

@Brookes19 i did another, but now im having so many doubts i ended up down a rabbit hole of reading lots of posts where people had gotten false positives on early detection tests and now i just dont know what to think. I won't believe it until i do a digital and see the words pregnant. AF isn't due until Thursday so too early to do a digital.

This looks most definitely positive 🤞🤞🤞🤞 how are you feeling?!

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Bey · 03/03/2024 20:33

@Eatsleepbakerepeat I have taken another test it's definitely positive. I just can't believe it, I'm so happy, in shock, but also incredibly anxious and nervous. I really hope it sticks.

Eatsleepbakerepeat · 03/03/2024 21:28

Bey · 03/03/2024 20:33

@Eatsleepbakerepeat I have taken another test it's definitely positive. I just can't believe it, I'm so happy, in shock, but also incredibly anxious and nervous. I really hope it sticks.

It's so exciting keeping everything crossed for you! How many dpo are you?

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Eatsleepbakerepeat · 03/03/2024 21:30

chillimjd1 · 03/03/2024 11:43

Hope yous don’t mind me jumping on. Currently in my TWW and not telling anybody this time. Had an early MC start of last month and can’t bare sharing my TTC journey with people I know this time :(

@Eatsleepbakerepeat how are you getting on? I’m 9dpo, so we’re at a similar point in our TWW! I’m due on in 2 days, but my app may be off as I still haven’t had a period since my MC. Sending baby dust ❤️

Welcome! Sorry to hear about your loss :(

I'm doing OK, thought I ovulated around 21st-23rd but got a notification from my phone today to say according to my skin temperature from my watch that I ovulated on the 26th so who knows! Having a lot of twinges and discharge but nothing else really, oh and woke up the other night feeling so so so sick but nothing came of it! Due on Friday so will see what this week brings 🙈

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Bey · 03/03/2024 21:57

Eatsleepbakerepeat · 03/03/2024 21:28

It's so exciting keeping everything crossed for you! How many dpo are you?

Thank you so much I am 11dpo today

Brookes19 · 04/03/2024 09:39

How's everyone today, BFN for me 😪 not sure when AF would technically be due so trying not to be too down but it's rubbish seeing a BFN!x

Sherw00d · 04/03/2024 14:41

@Brookes19 I'm so sorry. I know the feeling: I was so strongly hoping to see that second line last month and it just didn't come. It was worse because my period was a few days late (and then came full force while I was on holiday!).

@Eatsleepbakerepeat The waiting is torture, isn't it?! Fingers crossed those twinges are a good sign.

@Bey Congratulations!!! I'm right there with you on the fear front.

I did another test this morning (cd25, 11dpo) and it's definitely positive. I feel like I should be more excited, but my MMC has crushed the idea that a positive test = a baby.

If I'm getting genuine positives, I doubt I'll be able to accept it's really happening until I get past the 12 week scan. Coincidentally, if all goes well and I get that far, the scan will be the week of my lost baby's due date. That'll be a week of mixed feelings!

Bey · 04/03/2024 16:06

Brookes19 · 04/03/2024 09:39

How's everyone today, BFN for me 😪 not sure when AF would technically be due so trying not to be too down but it's rubbish seeing a BFN!x

Sorry to hear this @Brookes19 BFNs are so disheartening. You're not out until AF shows though

Bey · 04/03/2024 16:11

@Sherw00d congratulations (sorry I think I missed your BFP)

I can relate to everything you have said and that's really bitter sweet that your 12 week scan will be around the time the baby you lost due date 😢 hopefully you will get good news though. I've stopped testing now for a few days and I'm going to wait until AF due until I do a digital and share the news with my husband. Wishing you a healthy and happy pregnancy

Eatsleepbakerepeat · 04/03/2024 22:17

Sherw00d · 04/03/2024 14:41

@Brookes19 I'm so sorry. I know the feeling: I was so strongly hoping to see that second line last month and it just didn't come. It was worse because my period was a few days late (and then came full force while I was on holiday!).

@Eatsleepbakerepeat The waiting is torture, isn't it?! Fingers crossed those twinges are a good sign.

@Bey Congratulations!!! I'm right there with you on the fear front.

I did another test this morning (cd25, 11dpo) and it's definitely positive. I feel like I should be more excited, but my MMC has crushed the idea that a positive test = a baby.

If I'm getting genuine positives, I doubt I'll be able to accept it's really happening until I get past the 12 week scan. Coincidentally, if all goes well and I get that far, the scan will be the week of my lost baby's due date. That'll be a week of mixed feelings!

It's so difficult! I'm certainly at the point that I would be significantly more shocked if I wasn't pregnant than if I was! Just the feelings I'm getting etc, I've bought the early detection tests and period due Friday I've decided Wednesday morning ima do a test and see what it says

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Eatsleepbakerepeat · 05/03/2024 21:55

How's everyone doing? Anymore BFP?

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Bey · 05/03/2024 22:17

Good luck testing tomorrow morning @Eatsleepbakerepeat I hope you get your BFP x

Brookes19 · 06/03/2024 08:00

@Eatsleepbakerepeat BFN for me this morning. AF is technically due tomorrow but not sure what's going on with my cycles and don't feel like it's looming!!

Eatsleepbakerepeat · 06/03/2024 10:20

Bey · 05/03/2024 22:17

Good luck testing tomorrow morning @Eatsleepbakerepeat I hope you get your BFP x

BFN unfortunately, sounds stupid but I'm totally shocked I thought it would be positive I feel like I've had so many symptoms. But due on Friday and it was an early test I did so guess that's a no for me this month :( 🤞🤞 foe you guys

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Bey · 06/03/2024 13:11

@Brookes19 & @Eatsleepbakerepeat sorry to hear you got BFNs it's so disheartening, you're certainly not out this month until AF shows though.

Brookes19 · 06/03/2024 13:15

@Bey thank you! I need a virtual slap I've just done another one 🤦‍♀️ I can't stop myself! I keep convincing myself there is a faint line! Why does TTC turn me into a crazy woman

Bey · 06/03/2024 13:23

Honestly that was me last month @Brookes19 i spent a fortune on tests I was taking them every day even the day AF arrived I felt like an idiot but it's just ttc it makes us crazy!!! I'm sure it's the hormones too. Keeping everything crossed for you

Eatsleepbakerepeat · 06/03/2024 13:35

Bey · 06/03/2024 13:11

@Brookes19 & @Eatsleepbakerepeat sorry to hear you got BFNs it's so disheartening, you're certainly not out this month until AF shows though.

I really hope so 🤞
How are you getting on?

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Bey · 06/03/2024 13:40

Eatsleepbakerepeat · 06/03/2024 13:35

I really hope so 🤞
How are you getting on?

I've taken a clear blue digital today and it said pregnant 2-3 weeks I really can't believe it, just doesn't feel real, but I'm so happy anxious but happy, going to take things one day at a time and hope for the best

Eatsleepbakerepeat · 06/03/2024 13:42

Bey · 06/03/2024 13:40

I've taken a clear blue digital today and it said pregnant 2-3 weeks I really can't believe it, just doesn't feel real, but I'm so happy anxious but happy, going to take things one day at a time and hope for the best

💕💕 so so so exciting! Try and enjoy it, I know it's so much easier said than done especially after what we've all been through but stressing will just mean you don't enjoy it! Sending so many positive vibes

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Bey · 06/03/2024 13:44

Thank you so much lovely 🥰 @Eatsleepbakerepeat