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Does this look like line progression? Worried about another loss!

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CandleRigg89 · 20/02/2024 09:56

Hi everyone! First cycle TTC after a miscarriage in December. I’m lucky to have a wonderful 2.5 year old son.

I got a faint positive at 9dpo and was using easy@home to track. Progress looked decent from 9-11dpo.

I took my last easy@home last night and thought the line looked the exact same as the 11dpo smu. Well I have spiralled.

I bought Morrisons cheapies in a panic and took one last night about 8pm then again this morning about 6am. I also bought two clearblue’s.

I’ve got myself into such a state I’ve used an annual leave day and put my boy into nursery so I can get myself together a bit! Had no idea I would feel this level of pure anxiety. Can anyone look and see if those lines look ok for 12-13 dpo? The first one should say 13dpo AM not 12!

Does this look like line progression? Worried about another loss!
Does this look like line progression? Worried about another loss!
OP posts:
lioneggs · 20/02/2024 09:58

They're great lines, when I had a Cp my lines didn't get dark at all xx

Olika · 20/02/2024 10:12

I think they look good. Good luck! 🤞🏼🙂

CandleRigg89 · 20/02/2024 10:14

lioneggs · 20/02/2024 09:58

They're great lines, when I had a Cp my lines didn't get dark at all xx

Thank you for the reassurance, although I’m sorry to hear you had a loss too ❤️

Feel like I’m just waiting for it all to go to crap again! I’ve had some cramping through the night, involving my back and hips. I had this with my son but not until the second trimester, and I had it with my miscarriage but during the active bleeding. There’s no blood.

I have no memory of the early weeks with my son as I was blissfully unaware of all that could go wrong! Not until sickness developed at 6 weeks did I truly take notice. Finding out so early feels like such a mistake.

OP posts:
CandleRigg89 · 20/02/2024 10:17

Olika · 20/02/2024 10:12

I think they look good. Good luck! 🤞🏼🙂

Thank you ❤️

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Suchardchoccy · 20/02/2024 10:22

They look really good!!

Kungfoopanda · 20/02/2024 10:25

I've been there OP and my advice would be to take it day by day. Step away from the tests they won't actually tell you anything. Can you book a 6ish week scan?

CandleRigg89 · 20/02/2024 10:31

Kungfoopanda · 20/02/2024 10:25

I've been there OP and my advice would be to take it day by day. Step away from the tests they won't actually tell you anything. Can you book a 6ish week scan?

Thank you so much. It’s a horrid place to be in, mind can’t stop worrying and constantly looking for a reassurance that no one can give.

I booked a 6 week scan last time as I had started spotting and I just knew, and that confirmed it. Properly miscarried a few days later. Stepping away from the tests is probably very good advice. I’ve used them all so I won’t buy any more. It’s just reassurance seeking at this point.

how did everything go for you?

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Hankthehonk · 20/02/2024 10:44

These lines look good I think! Hcg doubles every 48 hours so comparing 12dpo to 14dpo tomorrow might be more helpful.
Pp saying to step away from tests is probably right but I know it's easier said than done. I was obsessed with testing when pregnant after my miscarriage. Attaching photo of my tests at similar stage which might reassure you - now holding a healthy newborn baby!

Does this look like line progression? Worried about another loss!
CandleRigg89 · 20/02/2024 12:33

Hankthehonk · 20/02/2024 10:44

These lines look good I think! Hcg doubles every 48 hours so comparing 12dpo to 14dpo tomorrow might be more helpful.
Pp saying to step away from tests is probably right but I know it's easier said than done. I was obsessed with testing when pregnant after my miscarriage. Attaching photo of my tests at similar stage which might reassure you - now holding a healthy newborn baby!

Thank you so much. The lines don’t look too different. This reassuring to see!

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Kungfoopanda · 20/02/2024 13:59

Hi OP it won't let me reply to that comment.

I now have 2 healthy children after multiple losses, the early stages of their pregnancies were genuinely very gruelling mentally. I would try to take a deep breath, put it out of your mind as much as possible and every day with no spotting/bleeding is a win, and then check around 6 or 7 weeks if you can hold out to make sure everything developing as it should and go from there. Everything crossed for you Flowers

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