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BFP or positive from miscarriage? HELP

27 replies

cpfmw · 15/02/2024 06:04

Hi

I feel like I’m going mad.

I had a miscarriage in January at 6 weeks … I know they told me to wait until I had a period however I tracked my ovulation and when I got a positive ovulation test we tried again.

I was previously testing negative.
I took a test 7dpo and it was BFN (obvs I don’t know why I took it, to torture myself?)
I then took a test 9dpo and it was a very faint positive.
11dpo (last night) I took another test and it was a stronger positive but I’d drunk lots of water.
Tested again this morning with first urine 12dpo and it’s much fainter again?
I was expecting this test to be much darker and clear it up for me.

It’s so confusing… all using FRER.

thank you xxx

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Birdsongsinging · 15/02/2024 06:12

If you were testing negative after the miscarriage, ovulated, then at 9 days and 10 days tested positive it sounds like you are pregnant. Test being lighter today can be due to lots of things but it definitely 💯 says you are pregnant. Hope it continues, I know pregnancy after a miscarriage is such an anxious time 💐

cpfmw · 15/02/2024 06:54

Thank you I really appreciate your comment.
I’m so desperate to be pregnant but also scared to get my hopes up.

Top is 12dpo (maybe it isn’t lighter)
11dpo
9dpo

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Ems1992 · 16/02/2024 07:52

These are definitely positive and the lines are getting darker. I have just conceived the month after a miscarriage too, I read loads about it prior and it’s very common to catch on next cycle. Good luck!

cpfmw · 16/02/2024 08:09

Thanks for your reply. Sometimes you just need the reassurance !
Good luck for you as well xxxx sending loads of love

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Rosyposy26 · 16/02/2024 08:18

Aww congratulations. I had a mc 2/2 and ovulated 2 days ago I was getting g negatives 5 days post mc and tracked ovulation and had a peak. Now in the TWW. 💐

cpfmw · 16/02/2024 08:37

Rosyposy26 · 16/02/2024 08:18

Aww congratulations. I had a mc 2/2 and ovulated 2 days ago I was getting g negatives 5 days post mc and tracked ovulation and had a peak. Now in the TWW. 💐

Crossing my fingers for you xxxxx

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Rosyposy26 · 16/02/2024 08:41

cpfmw · 16/02/2024 08:37

Crossing my fingers for you xxxxx

Thank you so much. In honesty I’m not expecting it to happen this month. Time isn’t on my side though I’m just over 40 x

cpfmw · 16/02/2024 09:50

Rosyposy26 · 16/02/2024 08:41

Thank you so much. In honesty I’m not expecting it to happen this month. Time isn’t on my side though I’m just over 40 x

This is now my third pregnancy (I have a 16 month old
son), and every time I feel like it’s happened when I’ve least expected it. ❤️❤️❤️

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Rosyposy26 · 16/02/2024 10:01

cpfmw · 16/02/2024 09:50

This is now my third pregnancy (I have a 16 month old
son), and every time I feel like it’s happened when I’ve least expected it. ❤️❤️❤️

Edited

This will be my 3rd but I had two DC now 20. & 17. With Exh this will be first with partner.

age is in my side as 43 but we said we shall see what happens.

twodoorsup · 16/02/2024 15:50

The top test is the darkest I think. Also it might be that you test stronger not with FMU (it was the same with me early pregnancy). Hope it all goes well!

cpfmw · 16/02/2024 16:20

I have had a couple of pin pricks of blood when wiping this afternoon so already freaking out. Would be 4 weeks tomorrow. I know it could be a bit of spotting but so terrified after last time

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Justhereforthechristmasthreads · 16/02/2024 16:30

Where did you get your first responses from? They are very difficult to get hold of right now and the amazon market is flooded with fakes/faulty ones.

I don't want to put a downer on the thread after what you have been through but the top 2 don't look pink in your photos. Have you tried a different brand of test?

cpfmw · 16/02/2024 16:35

Justhereforthechristmasthreads · 16/02/2024 16:30

Where did you get your first responses from? They are very difficult to get hold of right now and the amazon market is flooded with fakes/faulty ones.

I don't want to put a downer on the thread after what you have been through but the top 2 don't look pink in your photos. Have you tried a different brand of test?

They are from Amazon but
dont know if it’s a bad photo? X

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cpfmw · 16/02/2024 16:36

cpfmw · 16/02/2024 16:35

They are from Amazon but
dont know if it’s a bad photo? X

Sorry pic

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cpfmw · 16/02/2024 17:15

Bought some CB to check… there’s no more
tiny bits of blood … now need to step away from the tests and try and relax (easier said than done after a MC) xx

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CurlyWurly1991 · 16/02/2024 17:30

Aww congratulations!!! So happy for you.
I am also in the first cycle after a MMC in Dec/January. Currently 9dpo and hoping I will get news like yours!!
I hope you have a happy and healthy pregnancy 💕

Rosyposy26 · 16/02/2024 17:37

congratulations try stay relaxed. hoping to join you at the end of the month.

RhubarbCrumble12345 · 18/02/2024 10:32

Congratulations! Looks promising! I'm in the same situation with miscarriage at the end of January and I plan on trying again straight away. Hope I get the same result but still waiting on ovulation. Fingers crossed it happens soon 🍀 x

cpfmw · 18/02/2024 13:44

RhubarbCrumble12345 · 18/02/2024 10:32

Congratulations! Looks promising! I'm in the same situation with miscarriage at the end of January and I plan on trying again straight away. Hope I get the same result but still waiting on ovulation. Fingers crossed it happens soon 🍀 x

Thank you so much xx crossing my fingers for you.
still seems too good to be true !

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cpfmw · 25/02/2024 16:03

5+1 today… there’s a tiny bit of blood when I wipe. I can’t have my second miscarriage in two months I’m so scared

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cpfmw · 26/02/2024 15:57

Sorry I know I’m being annoying I am so terrified.

More light spotting today. EPU won’t see me for another 2 weeks… booked a private scan for
Saturday when I’ll be 6 weeks.

Did a test now and it’s very strong? It’s this a good sign or am I clutching at straws? I can’t take another miscarriage 2 in 2 months

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Ems1992 · 26/02/2024 16:18

A test is not indicative of a healthy pregnancy, they are not designed for that. It will show you have hcg in your system.
Some spotting is normal in early pregnancy, nobody could give you an answer as to whether it’s viable or not based on that test alone, but if there’s no fresh blood with clots and pain then I would say that’s a good sign x

Jess1997 · 02/03/2024 02:11

Hi OP how are you doing now?

cpfmw · 02/03/2024 05:44

Jess1997 · 02/03/2024 02:11

Hi OP how are you doing now?

Thanks so much for your message.

I have had a couple of instances of very light pink discharge this week and the odd tiny specks of blood but it has never progressed in to bleeding. Still have sore boobs etc. It’s been horrible as feel like I’m on the edge of my seat constantly waiting for a massive bleed.
I have a scan at 9.20 privately as I’m 6 weeks today… not sure how much they’ll be able to see and I’m not holding out any hope but I just want to be put out of my misery. My gut says it won’t be good news. Xxx

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cpfmw · 02/03/2024 11:37

Should be 6 weeks but measuring only 4… sac in the right place and a good shape they said but nothing to be seen inside. I am confident on my dates…
Have to go back for a rescan as she said sometimes this can happen and it can catch up by not holding out any hope.
Feel so so sad and deflated, I’m so low.

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