So as usual the title sort of says it all. I'll start off by saying I'm 28 and only just recently slept/had sex for the first time ever, it was okay but I had a few issues...it was as awkward as i expected but with a couple curveballs, without going into details the intention for our arrangement is for me to have a baby with him, so the result needed to be him obviously cumming inside me unfortunately he didn't finish he was still hard (ish) I say ish as he had started to go down I think due to being stressed about not finishing, he tried to get excited again but I think the moment had passed by that point. I'd like to give it another go next month as I know this month won't have worked, I know Pre cum can sometimes be all it needs but the likelihood of that is slim, curve ball one was he was much smaller then I had imagined not that I was expecting huge but he's probably quite below average so with that and me being slightly bigger lady he well kept falling out, is there any positions I can try that will get him to go deeper and not fall out each time? Preferably ones that I don't need to bend like a pretzel. Curveball two I don't want to kiss him so what other ways can I get him to be intimate without that part partly I don't want to due to my past but also he was rather sloppy so was really hard to be turned on by that! I'm used to my vibrator or dildo to keep me happy would I be bad suggesting or just buying a vibrating cock ring? I had to fake the orgasms as he just didn't go in deep enough for long enough or fast enough sorry tmi This week of ovulation I had a really high sex drive so was left feeling rather unsatisfied and frustrated when he left, he went down for about 1 minute, and then very ferociously rubbed/fingered but wasn't pleasant at all I don't know how to broach the subject? I mean I was the virgin but I feel like he almost was to (even though I know he wasn't) Sorry for tmi or anything I just don't know where else to turn for advice