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After secondary infertility for years… is this it?

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longingtobe23 · 11/01/2024 08:14

cramps and pain at predicted maybe 8dpo (I didn’t track of Christmas/ new year because I didn’t want the pressure)

last night took a cheap test … period due in 4 days

my backstory is so long pcos endo funny tube's …. I am so perplexed 😕

but I am convinced I see a line I am only about 9DPO and I have no digitals and no chance to do one until tomorrow morning 🤦🏼‍♀️

HELP!? I’m freaking out

After secondary infertility for years… is this it?
After secondary infertility for years… is this it?
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TrumpetOfTheMatriarchy · 11/01/2024 08:18

I can see a line

Butterfly2000 · 11/01/2024 08:21

I see a line! I think digital take longer to turn pos so maybe best waiting till after missed AF to use a digital. Tentative congratulations 😊 x

longingtobe23 · 11/01/2024 08:26

@Butterfly2000 @TrumpetOfTheMatriarchy thanks both

i had endo surgery in October and she told me that because my tubes are inflamed I should call asap and get checked because of ectopic risk

so I think that’s why I’m hoping I’m not going crazy as rather be safe than sorry! But I see it too. I am just in total shock.

my fertility next step appointment is (was) on the 24th jan 😅

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abeeabeeisafterme · 11/01/2024 08:27

That's a lovely line for 4 days until AF!

longingtobe23 · 11/01/2024 10:43

I did another with second morning … still there

my husband is adamant it’s not real

After secondary infertility for years… is this it?
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Butterfly2000 · 11/01/2024 10:52

It's definitely real lol! Do call Endo and let them know. Guess you won't need that appt on the 24th woohoo! Maybe don't cancel it till you've spoken to someone though

Rosiiee · 11/01/2024 11:05

Men 😂
It’s like they don’t believe it’s real until the baby is actually born!
That second line is clear as day! Fingers crossed it progresses 🤞🏻

longingtobe23 · 11/01/2024 11:06

@Butterfly2000 i think I call early pregnancy unit for a location scan (scary!) - then I will call the gynae surgeon that sorted the endo and tell them! 😅

I have a few weeks but I hope I can get a super early scan before I have to cancel as the appointments are gold dust!

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Rosiiee · 11/01/2024 11:07

The earliest a scan place will see you is 6 weeks I think. Good luck!!

longingtobe23 · 11/01/2024 11:10

@Rosiiee he didn’t believe it with our now 8 year old son either so why am I not surprised 😂

I hope a “Pregnant” on a test will convince him

I think maybe because it’s nearly 3 years of dreaming 🥹🥹🥹

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longingtobe23 · 11/01/2024 12:39

I got my answer 😅 thanks all for the hand hold.

clear as day on a clear blue digital early

I can’t believe it …. After so so long! He believes me now.

if anyone is struggling YOUR time will come I feel elated/petrified/confused in equal measure!

After secondary infertility for years… is this it?
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Feliciacat · 11/01/2024 12:41

Aww congratulations! This is lovely!

Enko · 11/01/2024 12:44

Wonderful news

Rosiiee · 11/01/2024 17:13

Ah im delighted for you!! I had secondary infertility and needed ivf so I’m over the moon for you!

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