TTC after early miscarriage- 4 weeks pregnant and scared!

[NicolemB]

Hiya!
just looking for other people’s experiences, we have been TTC for about a year for a second child. We had an early miscarriage back in June , miscarried at 3 weeks so early miscarriage/ chemical

I just tested positive today and would be 4 weeks tomorrow but…. AF would be due later this week and with my last miscarriage it started on the day AF was due , had spotting and then heavy bleeding. ER confirmed low HG and miscarriage

I think I’m just asking what’s the chances of this happening again , tested positive on the same DPO as last time so I’m getting Deja vu and terrified!

Hi

So sorry for your loss, I had two MC last year, both at 7 weeks and it’s heartbreaking. We’re also trying for number 2 and I’m currently in the 2ww agaaaain!

All I can say is what someone said to me last time I fell pregnant, just keep repeating to yourself “different egg, different sperm, different pregnancy.” It doesn’t take the stress and worry away but it helped me to try and focus on thinking positive rather than feeling full of dread. Easier said than done! But just know you’re not alone in this real complicated journey we’re all on and it’s only natural to feel worried. I truly hope everything works out for you xx

Ahhh the two week wait is the worst!
I said I wouldn’t test until missed period this time , but I have had really bad nausea the last few days so did a random test in the afternoon and boom!

thank you for the advice that’s a really good thing to remember , I’ll be trying to focus on that ❤️

sending baby dust your way!