TWW Hand hold 🤝 last chance before 2024

[longingtobe23]

Just that someone to vent to and share with others….

basically TTC two years solidly
Investigations
stage 2 endo
operation in october

I am in my TWW and know I will be crushed if my period comes (due husbands birthday) as I started to try in 2020 and it’s soon to be 2024!

next year is IVF time - but after my endo clearing op I was told I had great chances 🥹

hoping for a miracle ✨

Best of luck.

Another (albeit unhelpful) way of viewing it is that it's 2 months since the operation- so almost a refreshed start.

I hope it happens, but if it doesn't don't be defeated, new year brings promises of hope. And you'll have festivities to distract your mind from disappointment or another reason to celebrate.

It's not the journey you thought you'd be on but you will get your miracle! You've got this! Stay strong and do things that make you feel good over the next few weeks.

Also had a tough time, and AF due on husband's bday (on Saturday - when's yours?) and also thought I'd have my baby this year. Let's manifest that miracle 💫

Sorry to hear this @longingtobe23 but hoping for that miracle for you! What a great time for it ☺️
How many DPO are you?
I’m on cycle 9 ttc (unexplained recurrent early miscarriages) and have ovulated today. Hoping for a christmas miracle 🙏🤞🏻🌈

@Outliers thanks so much! Semi treating it as a fresh start, mostly trying my best to forgot the previous heartbreak and think positively ♥️

@Thornberry1 oh gosh thank you 🥹 I know it’s taking its time but I am so so hopeful it’ll be our turn soon as will it be yours!
usually I am a positive girl, but just hate when a big event comes and goes, that’s three Christmas times without a baby by the tree. 🎄
husband bday is Sunday!

@LacedBouquet thank you again, you’re all so kind. Sorry to hear about your losses 🤍
hope you have a peaceful and relaxing ovulation 🤞🏻
I am 9DPO and figured out I could have another shot and ovulate 31st December 🙌🏻

but I’ll know soon enough - will keep you updated x

Totally agree - I've been dreading Christmas and having to match everyone else's happiness. Same as you, I'm usually a positive person and I don't want to be sad and bring the mood down - it's so hard. Just going to spend time with people I love and trust and who don't expect too much from me.

I'll be thinking of you over the weekend and hoping for a birthday surprise for your husband and mine ❤