Had a bit of fun when I thought we were ‘safe’

[Hadawhoops]

I’m sorry to put this here as I know most of you are actively trying, I looked around the boards and couldn’t find anywhere else. So I’m hoping you’ll welcome me while I’m shitting my pants.

I’m not due on until the 18th according to Flo (regular 28-31 day cycle, 29 days the past few months)

But, I’ve been having cramps for the last 3ish days. Like AF cramps.
I’m trying to tell myself that this is normal for me (it’s not really, when I’ve had cramping this early in the past it’s because I was pregnant).

I wouldn’t be even noticing any of this if I hadn’t of messed up on my ovulation days. Flo tells me I ovulate on cd14. When I looked back on my pregnancies, I actually caught on cd18… the day we dtd this month.
I can’t believe I’ve never noticed this before, I always believed the app! 😫 feel so stupid.

So anyway, now I’m counting down the days to see if I’m pregnant.

Apart from the cramping, I’ve had waves of nausea but I’m linking that to a cold I have.

Anyone care to wait it out with me?

I dont think there's a need to apologies. The page is conception intentionally or not lol.
I can only imagine the anguish of waiting to find out. How are you feeling about it at the moment? Would you like another child if you are pregnant? How many kids do you already have?

I sometimes cramp a lot from ovulation until my period arrives. In recent months it has started over a week before my period and I have not been pregnant. So if you don’t want to be pregnant try not to panic as early cramping doesn’t necessarily mean you are pregnant. Any other symptoms than are different to your normal?

Thank you! I just didn’t want to be insensitive as I remember that feeling of really really wanting to be pregnant. But I’m driving myself mad with my own thoughts and needed to get it out somewhere.

I have 3 DC already. So a full house. And well past the baby years.

I’m trying to be realistic, I’m probably only noticing these cramps because I’ve realised we were careless.
The sicky feeling I’m putting down to a cold…

Hey OP,

How are you getting on?

Hi, thanks for asking. Still having cramps, thinking it’s most likely that AF will make an early appearance this month.
I will admit to letting my mind run away with itself though! Will just have to wait and see over the next few days