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11dpo BFN on FRER

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Rightnow1245 · 21/08/2023 18:30

so as it say in the subject I’m 11dpo and just got a bfn on a frer I didn’t use FMU but do you think I still have a change or has anyone got a positive stories about getting a BFN and then getting a BFP?

with both my boys I got a BFP by 10dpo so this is why I’m thinking I’m out!

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Rightnow1245 · 15/09/2023 22:16

@SchofeTee hope it goes quick for you.. I actually like the lead up to ovulation but hate the tww 😊

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Rightnow1245 · 17/09/2023 07:55

So tested this morning on a FRER and got a BFN :( pretty gutted as I’m 11dpo so I should really have a positive if I was pregnant.. I mean there’s a chance but I’m not feeling hopeful tbh :(.

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DarkCrystal85 · 17/09/2023 13:26

Aw fingers crossed. I was totally negative on day 12 and then day 13 had a faint line, it took till about day 16 to have a good strong line. I always say you aren't out until AF xx

Rightnow1245 · 17/09/2023 20:43

Thank you @DarkCrystal85 thats given me so much hope.. I really hope it happens for me but I’m not going to test until after AF now x

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DarkCrystal85 · 19/09/2023 00:47

Every one is so different but yea I was quite shocked as I'd told myself day 10 I was out. Then just stared at the test and even told myself it was probably an evap line or dodgy test haha. You'll get it x
I did a stupidly early 7/8dpo test as we ordered another bulk pack and had 6 left over from last pack... I swear I see I faint line but it's surely far too early. It was more to appease my addiction than anything but I'm now like 👀 so again telling myself it's an evap or dodgy test. It came up in the time but so so so faint but has dried that bit darker. I'll probably end up tearing daily now 🙈 I am my own worst enemy

DarkCrystal85 · 19/09/2023 00:48

Testing*

Rightnow1245 · 19/09/2023 12:51

Wow @DarkCrystal85 i have seen others get a BFP at 5dpo on here so it’s not unheard of! Have you got a picture?
I just got a feeling I’m not I have no signs of pregnancy and no signs of AF but this is normal for me.. I don’t get any pre pains apart from a bad ache around 10mins before she comes and then I’m in agony for two days… my AF is so bad! Some of my friends have such light and pain free AF I think it’s pretty unfair hahah
I didn’t test today I only have one cheep one left so will save it for it AF is late!

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Rightnow1245 · 19/09/2023 12:52

*cheap

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DarkCrystal85 · 19/09/2023 12:56

Ah I've always had horrendous periods, I get a pain about a day before and just know it's going to happen. Annoyingly when pregnant I had that exact pain in back, thighs and tum from about week 5 to week 10 I was constantly paranoid.

I did get a picture and I didn't edit it but it is a bit of a squinter on the phone. I'm not telling myself this is it, even when I am pregnant I will be so anxious till week 12 then probably won't relax till I'm past 24 weeks when things can be done if I go into prem labour. Hate that having so many losses has meant I won't feel the emotions I did the first time I saw those lines 🥴
I did a test the night before too and that had the same kinda line but I didn't get a pic of that till later on and it had faded a bit but this one is from last night (I get stronger lines on a night not the morning)

11dpo BFN on FRER
DarkCrystal85 · 19/09/2023 13:12

It's like a star... if you look directly at it you can't see it but if you look away you can 😂

Rightnow1245 · 19/09/2023 14:30

Oh yay I can see a line too.. will you test again tomorrow or wait a few days to test again?
Yeah I totally get how you feel it is a scary time x

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DarkCrystal85 · 19/09/2023 14:49

Well I will do one each night... that was from last night so will do one tonight and just keep going like the crazy person I am haha. I'm due to have some drinks and a card game (we do whiskey) on friday night so although I'm already thinking I'll fill mine with apple juice it would be nice to know before then... hope it doesn't mean I lose the game though haha. As I say I have 53 tests so it doesn't bother me mentally and isn't breaking the bank. Be nice to see if the other tests I'm getting correspond or if the last batch was dodgy... though I spent all last cycle thinking I was when they all said bfn and I was like the tests must be wrong yet the two I've done last night and night before have had faint lines so I feel I can kinda trust them, they've always been bfn apart from the chemicals but they didn't show till day 12 or so and they remained very faint until af came. Arg wish I could fast forward this week and just know haha.

DarkCrystal85 · 19/09/2023 14:49

What day are you now? Have you any niggles

Fathema91x · 28/09/2023 13:42

Hey any updates? I’ve been ttc baby 3 for a while now hope it’s going well for you? In my tww now dreadful 😟 period due Sunday/Monday been testing since last week 😞 I don’t track ovulation so not sure what dpo but according to the app I’m 11dpo today just needed someone to talk to I guess but do please update on how things go x

DarkCrystal85 · 28/09/2023 16:47

My update is I got a few more faint positives and then my period 3 days early so unfortunately another chemical loss. Now cycle day 6 and on some extra vitamins blood showed I was a bit low on so hoping that helps in some way.

Welcome to the thread. 11dpo is quite early still so you still have a chance for that bfp. I use opk monthly as we have a donor so need to know exactly when to see them lol. Good luck 🙂

Noreen786 · 17/03/2024 06:08

Hi I’m on 11dpo and just texted and negative ;( getting all the pregnancies symptoms but no positive yet. Still v much hopeful let see. Any luck with you ladies?

DarkCrystal85 · 17/03/2024 10:48

@Noreen786 since my last post I WAS pregnant but lost the baby. I'm now first cycle TTC since then and I'm 2dpo. Terrified but more terrified to give up given that was my 9th loss.

I've had positives as early as 8 days and late as 15 days so a negative doesn't always mean you aren't. Fingers crossed for you x

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