12dpo , af due in 2 days , wheres everyone at ?

[Foreverhopeful23]

12DPO , AF due in 2 days . Wheres everyone at ? Need the distraction to avoid the urge to POAS again ( already had multiple BFNs )

This seems like a thread sprinkled with luck so I thought I’d hop on!

Im having a strange cycle, it’s my second after a miscarriage in May.

I had what I felt was implantation cramps around what I thought was 6dpo (cycle day 21) and went to get a blood test to see if any HCG was found a couple of days later. The test showed negative. Went home, took ovulation test and it was positive, so possibly didn’t ovulate when I thought and cramps were ovulation not implantation.

i felt what could have been implantation cramps on 5dpo until 6dpo and they’ve gone now.

So now, I’m about 7 or 8 dpo (the later ovulation) cycle day 30 (usually 28 days Bang on but miscarriage may have upset that) Due to start AF today but no sign yet.

My symptoms are all in my head one minute and the next I’m sure I’m pregnant. BFN yesterday but I knew it was too early- I’ll try and hold out until Friday if no sign of period.

Ive had a bit deep spot on my chin since 3dpo but could be PMS, cervix is super high and closed, cm is slightly lotiony and milky white but not excessive. I’m fatigued, and the uncertainty of cycles after a miscarriage are making me hyper aware of everything going on.

wishing you all the best for the rest of the TWW, I’m following your stories eagerly, the perfect distraction to make time pass!

Sorry for your loss . Fingers crossed for you . Don't be disheartened I had BFN untill a vVV faint line at 12dpo , faint at 13dpo and wasn't overt dark today at 14dpo but got my BFP.
I had fatigue, cramps , hot flushes , vivid dreams, sore nipples 😫.

@AllieDang I'm so sorry for your loss - I do think you're right in the sprinkle of luck from this thread! I've got everything crossed for you, keep us posted 🫶🏽 xxx

Eeeekkkkk @Foreverhopeful23 massive congrats!!! Amazing news, seeing it in black & white makes it that much more reassuring 🎉 xx

Sorry for your loss @AllieDang and wishing you lots of success this cycle ✨

& on that note... this just happened...

I also had a positive yesterday - just had a feeling and took the test a day early. Quite a strong positive which I couldn’t believe!

Feeling quite crampy though, anyone else?

Congrats to you all on your positives and best of luck to everyone still waiting!

@Intothemystic1 yes me too which was the same with DD for me xx

@Intothemystic1 & congrats on your BFP! Eeek 🥰

@Belles28 yay congratulations
( just worked out how to tag a name )
@Intothemystic1 Congratulations

I have been crampy for about a week and still crampy .

@Foreverhopeful23 my updated test this morning. That’s positives on 3 different brands now!! And getting stronger

Sorry here it is

Yaaay @Rosieposie0301 amazing!!! If we were to work out due dates based on our last cycles, the three of us must be quite similar? Think mine comes out as 14th Apr 24 xx

@Belles28 ahhh amazing news. Congratulations 🎉

Mine would work out as 11th April . We should keep in touch , share the journey x

@Rosieposie0301 brilliant news congratulations. X

@Belles28 @Foreverhopeful23 I think I worked out 12/13 April!
I agree, would be so nice to keep in touch and go through the pregnancy together!!

Congrats ladies! What an amazing turnout. I’m 10dpo but had bfn last few days so wanna hold out and around when af due. But I know I should be feeling implantation around now but feel nothing? Just sore boobs.

Did any of you ladies with a bfp feel implantation?

@Plumchumm i definitely think I felt a progesterone surge at 4dpo and implantation at 7/8dpo. I didn’t get my vvvfl until 9dpo, currently 11dpo and line is getting more obvious each time i test. You could have implanted later and there is def still time for your bfp. Keep us posted

@Plumchumm I had a BFN at 10dpo also , felt really disheartened, theses chats gave me hope . I have felt crampy for about a week and sore nipples but no obvious implantation just generally felt off . I got a very faint line at 12dpo , 13dpo was still faint . This morning 14dpo darker but still not strong but decided to do the digital anyway ( previous digital was -ve) and got my BFP . X

@Rosieposie0301 @Foreverhopeful23 @Belles28 Congratulations to you all ❤️

@Rosieposie0301 @Foreverhopeful23 That’s super reassuring, thank you 🥹 will keep updated x

is it too early to discuss baby names 🤣 I’ve been keeping myself occupied during the tww making a list of favourites lol. I was holding out for months saying to myself ‘I’ll only do that once I know I’m pregnant’ but somethings got to get me through it 😂

almost my entire family (direct and extended) had a boy first then a girl, so I’ve been exclusively looking at boy names 😝

@Plumchumm Care to share your list? I have ZERO names that I like/love... it was a struggle with my daughter as well. She is called Lylah though which I loveeee - my brother actually suggested it the day she was born!

Thanks for your lovely replies and huge congrats to those BFPs!

ladies- advice please, I caved after posting 🤦‍♀️ and have had two invalids on clear blue. Are these usually unreliable? I see a faint positive line on todays as well as a weird horizontal. Thanks in advance for your opinions!

Line eyes big time, might try again later on a pink early test- or is my pee going to hee too diluted now? I just want a valid result, positive or not! 🤣

Lylah is sooo beautiful. I love the spelling too 🥹

For a boy, I really like Henry, Leo, Julius (I tend to like classic old fashioned names.) I’m into a lot of the ‘L’ at the moment, Luca, Lewis, Liam.. they sound soft!

For a girl, I like Rose so far. ‘Rosie’ would be so cute as a pet name