Trying for baby No.2 10 months post baby help

[Michaelawoods]

Hey 👋 I just want some advice or even just personal experience that can help me from not going crazy while TTC

so I’m 10 months post baby on and for the last 3 months we’ve been activity trying and still no luck which I know is totally normal but what’s making me question it is we conceived or first baby on the 2nd month of trying. So now that it’s not happening I’m kinda worried and I know that’s ridiculous but when it happened so fast the first time then it’s hard not to question it.

my cycle is very different since having my baby to so thats another reason that I’m worrying. I got my period 6 weeks after I had baby and it was a very short cycle 23-24 days but last the last to I had a really long bleed for one period and then my next one took ages to come, maybe it’s trying to balance itself out. Im due my period today but nothing yet I took a pregnancy test that’s negative so I’d just love some advice did it take you much longer to get pregnant 2nd time round ? Did your cycles go abit crazy after baby?

thanks x

Bumps

Hi @Michaelawoods i concieved my baby number 2 when my baby number 1 was 8 months.
During my first cycle there was 2 vital days i missed not dtd.
Next cycle i literally dtd everyday once my period was over.
I also drank more water, i always only ever drank water when i was thirsty but i made more effort to drink more. I've went back to just drinking when i'm thirsty once i concieved.
Also i completely stopped exercising when i was ttc.
You can dm me if you need any other advice xx