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Tell me your happy conception stories late 30s/bf

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WolfMother326 · 09/06/2023 16:44

My DH and I are just starting to try for a second and I'm in need of positive stories!!!

Did you have a baby in late 30s or early 40s without it being a huge struggle??

Did you get pregnant while breastfeeding a boob obsessed toddler?

Please share your happy experiences here!

I had my first at 37 (he's 22 months old). I'm now 39 and still breastfeeding him, mostly just once or twice a day. My periods are regular and I def have cervical mucus/sex drive when I should be ovulating, but ovulation tests don't seem to pick up anything, not sure if that's related. I also had a chemical pregnancy in Feb when we weren't really trying yet.

Anyway, I'm nervous and could use some good inspiration! Tell me all your nice things please.

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moggerhanger · 09/06/2023 16:49

Can't help re bf but I had DC1 at 36 and DC2 at almost 39. No difficulties conceiving (I had problem pregnancies, but the medics said it wasn't to do with my age). Good luck!

mommabear64 · 09/06/2023 17:41

I know someone who had a one night stand at 45 and got pregnant! Currently trying at 44 so i'm hopeful! Thats what you gotta be right?

CurlyWurly1991 · 09/06/2023 18:45

Those ov sticks don’t work for me either. I try and use them but never get a proper positive despite other signs pointing to ov. Do you track your temperature eg on fertility friend?

Sealover123 · 09/06/2023 20:03

My mum had me at 39 and my sister at 42, almost 43. Pretty easy pregnancies and vaginally births, no complications. We were both healthy babies.

Tryingtoconceivenumber2 · 09/06/2023 20:32

Im currently 36 and pregnant with DC2, conception was fairly quick and same length of time as at 32 which I was surprised at. My friend has just had a 3rd before her 41st birthday again easy conception. Good luck! X

allgoodthings84 · 09/06/2023 21:32

I’m 38 and 29 weeks pregnant. I did have 2 early losses in a row before this pregnancy but so far so good

WolfMother326 · 13/06/2023 12:09

Thanks everyone, this is exactly what I needed to hear 😍

Congratulations @allgoodthings84 and @Tryingtoconceivenumber2 - makes me feel very hopeful! I hope things are going well.

@CurlyWurly1991 I think BBT doesn't work when you're breastfeeding - at least that's what I've read. I think I'm going to give it a couple of months and if we don't have any luck I will try to fully wean, but I don't really want to rush it.

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CurlyWurly1991 · 13/06/2023 20:43

@WolfMother326 oh really? I hadn’t heard that about bbt / breastfeeding. Every day is a school day !

MummaBearMarie · 20/02/2024 20:08

CAN I PLEASE HEAR YOUR EXPERIENCES having babies after 42+?
Is it very hard and exhausting? I’m looking for honest advise. I’m so afraid to go for it, life is really good now with our beautiful 7 year old. But another baby keeps pulling at my heartstrings. For 3 over years now. I’m very healthy but more tired. What are your personal thoughts? Id be around 53 when this child is 10!

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