First tww after loss

[SnookyPook]

Hi All,

I sadly had a MMC mid-April (had a scan for some spotting at 11+4 as my 12 wk scan wasn't due until almost 14wks... and unfortunately baby had stopped developing at 7+5)... am now back hoping to conceive my rainbow baby. Currently 1dpo so right at the beginning of the tww.

Wondered if anyone else is in a similar position and would fancy whiling away some time together?!

Mixed feelings... Obviously longing for another BFP but also slightly scared of getting one and knowing there will be weeks of anxiety ahead. Also trying to not overthink where I'd have been up to with my lost pregnancy if it was still going... So many mixed feelings!

@J2023xx @Hankthehonk thank you, this was my test. I've not wanted to work out dates yet, having had a mmc last time I'm not thinking that far ahead yet as not getting my hopes up.

@SnookyPook glad you found the other one, have you seen you in there now 🙂

@RoseH36 what a fantastic line! I totally understand about not wanting to get too far ahead of yourself, sorry for asking about dates. I'm super happy for you though!

@RoseH36 completely get feeling like that. It's partly behind my not wanting to test early etc. Would rather be in limbo in a weird way than confirm a pregnancy and have to confront the anxiety of that! Would be great if you could somehow skip all conscious thoughts of pregnancy until after a successful 12wk scan...

Sorry for your loss it's a horrible experience , I had a MC last January and TTC ever since waiting to start IVF now but totally get the worry around getting a positive as well.

@Hankthehonk no need to apologise at all it's fine 🙂 thank you, fingers crossed it all goes well this time. Keep focusing on the positive than 4 in 5 all go well.

@SnookyPook wouldn't that be amazing! Just go to sleep and someone wake you up again after your scan 😅 I'll be so nervous going for that.