6dpo carry on thread number 2

[Mummy1502]

@G3mini2 have had to make a new thread as we filled the other one, need to tag everyone else x

This is such a lovely and supportive group of ladies. @G3mini2 I’m sorry to hear about your rollercoaster. I agree with others that it sounds like it may have been a chemical pregnancy 😪

@Farmgirl12 @KittyKat1989 I just feel like a failure my body has failed. But it is what it is... i was in a right mood last night I slept in my sons room on the floor just so I could hear him breathing, it made me feel better and I'm so lucky to have him❤️ in a slight better mood today there's nothing I can do I've had a cry ive let it out my system
@KStein keep us updated

Hope everyone has a good bank holiday weekend x

@G3mini2 sorry you feel like that, it’s so hard to go through, it will happen when it’s ready for you x

@Mummy1502 sorry to have negativity on the thread, I have no one to talk to I try talk to my hubby and his response is "we will make another" 🤦🏻‍♀️ I might have have not not made it to 2-3 weeks but it still hurts. I've well and truly learnt my lesson with testing early whatever will be, will be x

@Mummy1502 When did you test positive? I remember you were testing negative pretty late.

@emmatcc1 i didn’t even get a faint line until af was a day late, how are you what cycle day are you on now? x

@Mummy1502 I tested today at 9 dpo negative. I keep getting this intense stabbing pains on the left side and I ovulated on cd 14 instead of early at cd11 so I’m hoping this is the month.

@emmatcc1 really hoping for you, I was confused with why I didn’t get a positive until late when I see lots of women get positives early especially with a frer as it can pick up 6 days early, I must have just implanted late x

@emmatcc1 saying that, I only have 24 day cycles, not sure if that could be why, although with my chemical I did test positive early, who knows lol x

@Mummy1502 how many dpo were you when you got a positive?

@emmatcc1 I didn’t track ovulation that cycle, but when I’ve tracked before I usually ovulate cycle day 10/11, so could have been 14/15 dpo x

Well I think my bleeding is stopping I've only been bleeding for 3 days so I think this has just confirmed my worst nightmare😔 I thought if I go my full period length it's just a bad period...

Question is will this affect my cycles like do I expect a period shortly or what...

My heads so far up my arse it's unbelievable 💔

@G3mini2 never feel alone or you don’t have anyone to talk too this thread is amazing and full of wonderful ladies.

and I know I can speak for us all that we are always here.

take care of yourself and know that nothing we do can cause the things that happens to our bodies, when I had my miscarriage last year, I felt totally let down by my body and that it had failed me. I even punished myself by not looking after myself for weeks. When that was the time that I needed to be kind to myself and look after myself.

one thing is your not alone xx

@Farmgirl12 that actually brought a tear to my eye... again😂😅 you lot are the most understanding people I've ever spoke to! I know I say this often but this is really the best thread❤️ I want nothing but the best for the girls on here

That is exactly how I feel, I've neglected myself since I started bleeding I think I've only had one hot meal since... my body has failed💔 I've never in my life had a period like that and for it to last 3 days has pretty much confirmed it. My periods lasts 5 days

I'm sorry you felt like that with your miscarriage I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy! My hubby says "we will make another one" I don't think he quite understands... he knows this is effecting me though and goes out of his way for me but I don't really wanna hear that right now...

I don't know how far I was 1-2 weeks maybe but it still very much hurts... a lot 💔 I could see it coming and I chose to ignore the signs x

@G3mini2 my heart breaks for you, I'm sorry. I hope you heal quickly, both physically and mentally. I've had terrible PMS today, have been crying all day. Am expecting my BBT to drop tomorrow, there's no way this isn't AF on her way, all the signs are there and the signs of pregnancy have disappeared completely. Make sure to eat, rest and relax. I am going to use the next week to prepare my body for the next cycle.

Thanks to everyone on this thread, the support has been amazing 💕

@KStein I'm sorry! Just see what goes on tomorrow you could still be in as they say you aren't out until af arrives 🤞🏻❤️

It's been a rollercoaster even if I didn't test early I'd have known something was wrong 3 days late the way my period was and bled for 3 days. I'd have known I lost just from that 😔 it just wasn't my time i suppose x

10 dpo test was negative and have all usual af signs.

@G3mini2 Hi ,I've been catching up try not to torture ur mind and think the worst about having a chemical please I know its hard and your having a different period, its like me I only bled 2 days this month and the worst pains and some red clotty bits then little brown it was a different one for me is what I'm saying but we're all closey on observation mode and will spot the tiniest detail in which we wouldn't, unless u took a test and it said positive try not add a chemical to ur mind because its not healthy and plus ur adding stress to urself when u don't actually know it for sure 🫂 ide go down hill if I took my period as a chemical because it was weird so try not too please for your mental health, don't think the worst is what im trying to say I hope you're ok n doing well now though x

@G3mini2 in the interest of keeping you updated, AF came today. My temp didn't drop though but must be an inaccurate reading. These times are difficult but one day we will look back and know it was all worth it 💕 sending love and all the best for whenever you're ready to try again x

@Roses12345 I see what you are saying, I've been so hard on myself recently. I'm doing better today it just wasn't meant to be, my test were coming back positive but I never got my big big bfp towards the end thet came back almost negative😔 just thought I needed a little longer for hcg to build but it didn't wanna progress... I stopped bleeding for over 12 hours and I started to spot today I've lost myself but picking myself up bit by bit. I have no time to sit and mope around as i have a little one he defo keeps me on my toes but when he goes to bed it hits me like a ton of bricks😔

@KStein sorry about your af arriving! Maybe this cycle is your time🤞🏻 and thank you I'm just gonna leave it this month I don't even know when I next ovulate or come on af I have 2 different apps telling me 2 different things so I'm just going to leave my body to it this month and track from there, good luck to you all! I'll still be wanting to see those test 🤞🏻❤️

@KStein Sorry to hear af arrived x

@G3mini2 hope your doing okay x

@emmatcc1 how are you? X

@Mummy1502 11dpo still negative I’m gonna skip tomorrow and test again on 13dpo. I had some af cramps and lower back pain as well as sore boobs. This morning I also woke up with a huge hive on my hip? It’s not a bug bite and I’ve never dan an allergy hive apparently it can be a symptom due to hormones. Af is due on Thursday so not long.

@emmatcc1 good luck x