so if I was going to orchestrate an "accident" for baby3 how would I go about it?

[spaghettiarms]

I have a very regular - predictable cycle,
DH and I talked last week and although he says he couldn't agree to another baby if we had an accident he would obviously go with it and adore the child (his words not mine)
Having thought that I never would I am now considering orchestrating an accident. He will never agree to not use a condom. so how on earth can I do it?

I am aware that it is a devious question and the best way would be to gently convince him that it is a good idea but he wanted one child, we have two so three really would be hard for him to agree to.

any thoughts (good or bad - I can take it!)

And do you do all the caring and financial supporting as well?

bad idea but you know that.dh and i always disagreed about having no 3.i wanted he didnt,then he wanted i didnt!but ds2 is now 2.now we cant agree on 4th