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TTC December part 2

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Floralsandsmiles · 03/04/2023 21:34

@Angelselevenx @lottieb92 @Natty83 @AlleycatMarie @bringmearainbow @Mummyme87 @babydustthisyear @seasidegirll @Tryingtoconceivenumber2 @TunnocksTcake @Aussiemum888 @un7breakable @Mushroo @HannahLouD @MilkyAndFluffy @Cheetocat

I hope I have got you all, please add anyone I've missed and I'm sorry if I have! Xxxx

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Floralsandsmiles · 09/04/2023 08:46

bringmearainbow · 09/04/2023 08:39

@Angelselevenx I had a look back on my app I didn't get a positive with DS until 11dpo I'm clinging to that one 😂

@Mummyme87 I have no unusual symptoms either no CM to note really

@Floralsandsmiles it does suck doesn't it always just so much waiting 😫

Yes it really does @bringmearainbow , I was convinced this cycle too. But with the pink tinge, I'm not not convinced xxx

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Floralsandsmiles · 09/04/2023 08:46

Seasidegirll · 09/04/2023 08:36

Period due either today or tomorrow, BFN this morning 🙁

Aww sorry @Seasidegirll !xxx

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Seasidegirll · 09/04/2023 08:54

@bringmearainbow im about 13dpo so I’m pretty confident that I’m out! My body has been playing tricks on me this month, I normally get really sore boobs about 4/5 days before my period but this month, NOTHING. I was quietly confident it was going to be positive this morning 🙁🙁 absolutely heartbroken, once again!! This ttc journey is absolutely brutal!

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Floralsandsmiles · 09/04/2023 09:08

Seasidegirll · 09/04/2023 08:54

@bringmearainbow im about 13dpo so I’m pretty confident that I’m out! My body has been playing tricks on me this month, I normally get really sore boobs about 4/5 days before my period but this month, NOTHING. I was quietly confident it was going to be positive this morning 🙁🙁 absolutely heartbroken, once again!! This ttc journey is absolutely brutal!

Aww I'm sorry @Seasidegirll ! I totally feel you on this!! Xxxx

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Angelselevenx · 09/04/2023 09:30

@Floralsandsmiles hang in there, 9DPO is so early I only had the faintest of lines then, my friend didn't get her BFP until 14dpo! Xxx

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Floralsandsmiles · 09/04/2023 09:34

Angelselevenx · 09/04/2023 09:30

@Floralsandsmiles hang in there, 9DPO is so early I only had the faintest of lines then, my friend didn't get her BFP until 14dpo! Xxx

I think I have started my spotting like last month, as that was day 9dpo too. So with the pink tinge the last few days, it's even earlier during LP. I'm devasted and think I'm out. I was so convinced this time xxx

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Angelselevenx · 09/04/2023 09:36

@Floralsandsmiles I'm sorry lovely 😔 this journey is a difficult one xxx

Seasidegirll · 09/04/2023 09:53

@Floralsandsmiles sending you lots of love xx

lottieb92 · 09/04/2023 09:56

So sorry all who are having their hope dashed this morning, I know it well 🤍

I hope you can hold onto it for a little longer and like they all say, ain’t over till AF rears her ugly head!

I had a very vivid dream that my 7 year old came back from shopping independently (he doesn’t do that btw) and then he had gotten me some pregnancy tests and I took them - all positive!

🤪 clearly losing it…

Daniki · 09/04/2023 11:02

@lottieb92 haha I was similar Saturday night kept dreaming of taking tests and they were all positive 🙈😂

Daniki · 09/04/2023 11:04

@Floralsandsmiles ah I'm so sorry 😖 my jan and feb cycle were similar to that but the march one seemed to regulate it self finally.
If cycle is changing may be worth while getting hormones checked? (You may have this all done already so apologies if so!) xx

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Floralsandsmiles · 09/04/2023 11:11

@Angelselevenx @Seasidegirll @Daniki thanks ladies. I really am feeling very very low right now. I was so quietly confident and hopeful. I hate this.
What a great Easter Sunday, and now I have to endure a huge family gathering for my parents 25 wedding anniversary and my grandparents 60th wedding anniversary, being asked loads of questions like "so, now you're married, do you think maybe you'll try"... or "when will you give me more grand babies". Seriously FML! Xxx

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Floralsandsmiles · 09/04/2023 11:12

Daniki · 09/04/2023 11:04

@Floralsandsmiles ah I'm so sorry 😖 my jan and feb cycle were similar to that but the march one seemed to regulate it self finally.
If cycle is changing may be worth while getting hormones checked? (You may have this all done already so apologies if so!) xx

Thank you darling. Just did my last lot of blood work (have done Cd3 and Cd21 of bloodwork). So hoping that says why.. xxx

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Daniki · 09/04/2023 11:15

@Floralsandsmiles I honestly hate when people ask those questions! Had a man say to me at work oh it's time to give my son a sibling I felt like saying yea sure if I could hold on to a pregnancy I would 🙄 🙈
Hoping you get some answers, it's a rough old journey ☹️ xx

Angelselevenx · 09/04/2023 11:16

@Floralsandsmiles the worst questions, people don't realise the impact of asking these sorts of things do they.

I've been testing my LH and it still seems fairly high considering, it's got darker since yesterdays, hoping it doesn't peak anytime soon as I'm still bleeding 😔. If i take the first day as spotting (when AF was due) I'm on day 9 now and AF is normally 8 days. I should be hitting peak CD21 if it stays normal to previous months xx

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lottieb92 · 09/04/2023 20:36

Saw the tests in the bathroom… dipped one ahead of tomorrow, bfn 🙈

Daniki · 09/04/2023 20:49

@lottieb92 they're so tempting 😂 I tested again this eve and still negative as this morn 🫣

lottieb92 · 09/04/2023 20:55

@Daniki my poor husband was like “yeah but ages of time until tomorrow mornings test”

ever the optimist 😖 it’s stupid early, I think it was so I can just not expect anything tomorrow, self preservation if you will.

survived the Easter lunch though and everyone had left and I had NO distraction anymore

Daniki · 09/04/2023 21:00

@lottieb92 an bless your husband he sounds like mine, very optimistic! 😍 least the lunch went well and here's hoping we're still in with a chance.

When I was pregnant with my first, I kept testing negative up until my period was due, had been trying for like a year, and one day I just took a test cuz it was sitting there and I got a verrrry faint line so I keep trying to remind myself of that!

Mummyme87 · 09/04/2023 22:48

I’m testing tomorrow morning with an easy @ home cheapie, will be 10dpo. It’s my only test then will try not to order anymore. AF due Thursday. Boobs very sore and maybe a bit of pulling in lower abdomen but I’m looking for stuff that’s not there. The boobs definitely are but I always have sore boobs in luteal phase.
good luck for everyone testing in the next few days. Remember you’re not out until AF shows

Daniki · 10/04/2023 07:18

@Mummyme87 that's true. Tested there now and negative ☹️ such a sensitive test too. Not due til Friday but I'm the same boobs wise they're quite sore

Mummyme87 · 10/04/2023 07:47

10dpo and a bfn. As always my line eyes want to make me believe there’s a shadow there, but no.

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Floralsandsmiles · 10/04/2023 07:56

Mummyme87 · 10/04/2023 07:47

10dpo and a bfn. As always my line eyes want to make me believe there’s a shadow there, but no.

Sorry @Daniki and @Mummyme87 for your BFN. Thinking of you both xxx

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bringmearainbow · 10/04/2023 08:11

10dpo there's a faint pink line 🙈

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lottieb92 · 10/04/2023 08:16

@bringmearainbow there certainly is!! Ekkkk!

nothing for me at 9DPO on my easy@home and a clearblue early! Still not sure I accept it/ sunk in yet. Holding on to hope a little longer.

I might skip tomorrow and test at 11DPO ☺️