lissie & mrlissie have made a BIG decision....

[lissiethelover]

we are no longer ttc.

I am going to the docs tomorrow to ask about birth control. I have had enough. I get pg then mc, then worry about an ep. Its no life for any of us. So I am going to uni, we are moving away from Shropshire (hopefully) and we are going to enjoy being a family of 3 and not have the spectre of a hypothetical baby hanging over us. Good luck ttc-ers (especially from the hut and ttc after mc threads) x

What a hard decsion that must have been to come to.
I wish you every happiness in your future.
xx

Wishing you the BEST in all ways, lissie, and plenty of love and good thoughts, too.

Enjoy your beautiful family.

thank you all. shall remain on mn tho, just not in conception.

expat, how are you doing now?

I'm doing better, lissie, thanks for asking!

We're still trying to decide whether to TTC or consider our family complete ourselves.

It's not an easy decision, and I wish you peace with yours.

it is a tough decision, and theres no right or wrong. but im so glad you are doing better x

aww lissie I understand what a decision you have made a brave one too

Best of luck with moving and uni, my thoughts are with you all xxx

I will always remember your lovely supportive posts when I had just found out I had lost my baby and always be thankful to you

Lissie I have never commented on your threads for sheer lack of ways of expressing my sympathies for all you have gone through. But well done for taking this brave and big decision. In a strange way it must be a relief to have come to this decision?

I wish you all the happiness in the world.

SK: xx im really glad i helped. mc is an awful thing to go through, and i cant wait to see your announcement!

Oh Lissie - there is nothing new I can say - just sending my love

Yes it is lissie I never realised the devastating effect it has on you, it's rapidly coming up to my due date and still not a day goes past I don't think of that LO so I cannot imagine what you have been through, it just makes me appreciate this one and the DDs even more.

I'm sure there are loads more on here you have helped in the past year, take heart from that if nothing else. Be kind to yourself x

i hope so SK.

Flamesparrow, thank you x

This sounds like a really good, positive, brave choice

I just wanted to post as I also have the little family of DH, me, and Ds and it is lovely and there are many, many, many positives - all of which I am sure you will enjoy to the full

Lissie really positive decision, enjoy your lovely family wishing you lots of love and luck

good luck lissie, i am probably about to make the same decision in teh enxt few months!

maybe see you in edinburgh!

hopefully thegoat.

and cedar, thank you so much for your support, i'dve been lost without it x

Good luck with your new dreams Lissie - I remember you being very supportive when I was on mc threads.
Happy happy wishes for you.

thank you x

well, going tomorrow to organise the implant (coils too risky and im crap with the pill) applied for my course today. and i feel relieved. I dont have to worry for 2y. and we can review the situation then.

im sad, but know that we are doing the right thing!

Oh Lissie, lots of hugs for you. A hard decision, and a brave one too.

I wish you all the very best on your course, and for your move, wherever you end up (if it's near me, I'd love to come and get some ttc related reflexology) and above all else enjoy being a family of 3!!

I will leave you with this... "3, that's the magic number"

Best wishes,

Ready xx

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