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Sex 4 weeks apart when did I conceive ? PLEASE HELP

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01mex · 26/10/2022 08:54

im wondering if anyone could help me if possible.. LONG POST PENDING!

i had a period 12th july which was 7 days late and made my usual 28-32 day cycle a 37 day cycle which is alarming for me.

However I was on 2 lots of antibiotics and under a lot of stress and also had BV ( sorry tmi) due to hormones I think as since January I’ve struggled with thrush / bv same time before my period and drs said hormones as I’ve been STI tested serval times all clear !!

Anyway on 29th June before my last period I had unprotected sex ending with the pull out method ( from what I know ! ) with a ONS ( man 1 ) I’m aware there’s still chance you can get pregnant this way. As my period was delayed by a week I tested several times from the 4th july - just before my period 12th july can’t remember exactly what date all negative ( aware may be to early to test ) 29th June I was not ovulating according to my flo app but now my cycle was delayed flo has told me I was now in a fertile window which has caused me concern.

I then after 2 weeks exactly after my period and 4 weeks exactly from man 1 I had unprotected sex 26th july ( man 2 ) again pull out method however not completely he stated he did ejaculate a little bit. I am now 15 weeks pregnant and concerned I’m pregnant from man 1. I sound crazy because all my scans all 5 early scans including my 12 week scan ( I am a worrier ) have shown the dates to be from what must of been a period not implantation the 12th july = conception 2 weeks after and my due date also links up to this being man 2. If my previous period wasn’t delayed I wouldn’t be worried as much but I’m over thinking it everyday it’s really bringing me down and I feel so alone hence the reason for voicing my concerns to strangers for some support / reassurance that it is not man 1 baby. What do you think ? Could I really be pregnant from June 29th would my baby be measuring 4 weeks a head now as from conception your stated as 2 weeks pregnant anyway because it usually goes from LMP ?? Please help I’m so stressed and sad with worry 😩

ps 11th august I done a clear blue test which stated 2-3 weeks from conception ( man 2 was 2 weeks and a 2 days from this and man 1 was 6 weeks from this !! ). I just worry all my scans are TOO accurate as my cycles do change lengths from 28-32 days and I’ve read horror story’s scans and dating scans are incorrect but even if it was incorrect by 5 days either way I would of still have to of conceived 2 weeks after the date given not before!

thanks for reading sorry for waffling!

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FlyOnTheWall89 · 26/10/2022 09:01

@01mex has to be man 2. Stop worrying, look at the facts.

allgoodthings84 · 26/10/2022 17:33

Man 2. You had a proper period after man 1 and man 2 was around the time you will have be ovulating.

My period delays when I’m poorly if I’m poorly before I ovulate as it puts back ovulation so in turn period is late too

olivehater · 26/10/2022 17:52

Whatever your date is from your scan. Take two weeks off. That is your approximate conception date.

Bournetilly · 26/10/2022 17:55

Has to be man 2, the dates add up and you had a period after man 1

Anonymouslyposting · 26/10/2022 18:02

Man 2 seems by far the most likely.

If you really are worried do a paternity test when baby arrives so you don’t have any nagging doubts but from what you’ve put it seems very unlikely it’s man 1.

Freshair87 · 26/10/2022 18:47

Definitely man 2, everything adds up and they didn't put you ahead at your dating scan, try not to worry so much

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