Waited 2 years and I've had a chemical 😔

[Charis1503]

Taken 2 years and finally last Wednesday at 4 weeks and 5 days I got my BFP ❤️

Since then the line has got fainter and fainter to almost nothing. (Been testing with fmu each time) I have no bleeding or cramping but everything tells me I've had a chemical pregancy.

I know there is nothing to be done but I'm just so heartbroken and thought some positive stories following chemicals may cheer me up? Xx

@Charis1503

Hey, didn't want to read and not write.
I just want to send you hugs. Lots and lots of hugs. I could have written your post.
TTC for 2yrs. BFP in April (must have taken hundreds of FRER and digitals) and had an early miscarriage the following week. I started cramping and bleeding. Heartbroken doesn't justify what we were feeling. Still hits me now sometimes and can't help but cry.

Sorry my post isn't positive but I'm hopeful.

Don't give up lovely. Feel what you need to feel. Sending love and lots of baby dust xxxxx

I'm so sorry this is happening to you. It's really unfair.

So sorry you're going through this @Charis1503. I had a chemical and another MC myself which have been a hard blow - I'm 36 and TTC for the first time so started thinking I'm late for the train - but got pregnant again fairly quickly and all going well in this one - touch wood. Some research suggests you are more fertile in the months following a MC although I personally took a month off to just recover emotionally. Please be kind to yourself, this is heartbreaking, and best of luck to you xx

@Charis1503
I've had exactly the same this month.
First ever BFP on 4+4 after almost 2 years, but has since turned to faint line, now nothing. Is heartbreaking and now impatiently waiting on AF to arrive, which just feels like an extra punishment.

I don't have any words right now that will make you feel better, but know you're not alone.

I also read that a miscarriage can help increase fertility so I'm hoping we get sticky beans again in the next few months.

Hugs X