No period, no positive - what's going on?!

[Bluebellle88]

We've been trying for baby #2 for 4 months now.

Last month my cycle was 41 days long and I thought I was pregnant, then my period started :/

Same thing this month, except this time my cycle has been going for 46 DAYS! Still no sign of period. Have taken 4 tests over the last 2 weeks - all strong negatives.

If it turns out I'm skipping this period, how do I figure out ovulation again? We last tried April 26 and since then we've been having a little rest 😅

Also, why does this usually happen? I'm 9 months PP, but periods have all been normal except these last 2 months. (Not breastfeeding due to total lack of supply so periods returned quickly).

Maybe it was an early miscarriage? I felt that I did have some implantation bleeding, but then some very minor 'out of character ' brown discharge about a week later. And shouldn't my period have started afterwards?

Sex has been hurting a bit occasionally but I figured it was just because we were trying so often (every 2 days).

TL;DR ... when do I start TTC again? (Or should I keep doing pregnancy tests?!)

Ove always been under the understanding if you don't get a period,and don't get a positive test, then you havnt ovulated. The fact your cycles are getting longer suggests maybe your body isn't working in the way you're expecting. Worth a trip to the docs to get some tests. OPKS are literally this, just a prediction. They just guess when you should be ovulating, but don't actually tell you you actually have ovulated. Sorry if this isn't the news you want to here, but it's a sad fact. I'm currently going through this atm.