TTC APRIL/MAY THREAD 2

[RMS0209]

Hi Ladies!
2nd thread for this chatty lot...
Cycle 4 (May) TTC baby #1
The chat of no TMI or silly questions

@Mc3209 sorry about the bfn. I'm exactly the same was totally convinced it had worked last month too

@Mc3209 sorry about BFN! How many DPO are you?

@RMS0209 we are in sync this month I'm 5dpo too. What day are you testing and what are you using?! I tested yesterday with a cheapie I couldn't help it haha. Obviously BFN.
As for not DTD on ovulation day. When I got pregnant the second time we DTD leading up to it with the last time being on the Monday (peak). I went for an internal scan on Tuesday night and and they said I was going to ovulate in the next 24-48hours from the follicles they could see. DH refused to do it again and I cried. Still got my BFP that month!!

@PeanuttyButter yay TWW buddy! 🤗
I don't know about testing.. scared, I think if I can get to 12/13 DPO without spotting I will try then which would be the Friday? What about you?
Haha 4DPO praying for a positive!
We'll see that's the thing... when it happened last time we DTD when I got the peak smile and the day before it but not the day after so let's hope we are both in luck this cycle!
How are you feeling x

Another day of no AF ladies! 3/4 days late and twinges down there but no AF!

this is getting very tedious now… tired of the BFN’s and delay in starting a new cycle 😔 I’ve got no hope left for a BFP this month because I’m so over the AF mark

Sending you big hugs @Hjudge56 x

@Hjudge56 that is very annoying! Did you take any medicines this cycle that could have delayed it?😕 i am 9dpo today and sure my AF is on the way.

@Kitty901 nope! Honestly nothing different this cycle!

I’ve actually just been sick too. Literally stood up and had a huge amount of nausea build up and ran to the loo and was sick! God knows what that means! Feeling a bit worried about my body niw

@Hjudge56 I'm really not sure about what DPO I am as I wasn't tracking ovulation and still haven't had a proper period since stopping the pill, but judging by CM it should be imminent AF territory.
I'm sorry your body is playing tricks. Big hugs.

With my first, I only got BFP on 15-16DPO. Was uneventful pregnancy thereafter. So technically you are not out until AF shows.

@Hjudge56 it must have something to do with the positive tests you had the other day, you probably just want this to be over now. I hope it turns out positive for you in the end, fingers crossed you have been through so much this cycle it is awful. Xx

@Mc3209 thank you for your kind words ❤️ A few people have said to me that they didnt get BFP until way after AF! And I mean it’s soooooo unusual for me to be late. But I had 3 faint positive on cheapie 2 days ago and since nothing so my heart is telling me I could be going through a chemical :(

but I guess we’ll know over the next few days

@MrsUSAinUK huge congratulations to you that is a very strong line! I hope it is the start of a trend of all of us!

@alwaysseeingstarsI feel tired and not as hungry as normal but I would feel like this coming up to my period anyway. I almost tested today but stopped. Only 10DPO so too early yet! How are you doing?

@RMS0209 you are not out by any means, loads of reports of people conceiving on the months they weren't trying and only did it once. Best of luck!

@Hjudge56 sorry to hear you are having such a tough time. The waiting and not knowing is the hardest part. Fingers crossed you will know either way soon.

@Kitty901 yesh I think if I didn’t have those positives the other day I’d feel more hopeful but I think they’ve made it clear that im going through a chemical. I keep feeling like AF is coming one minute then no feelings down there the next. Nothing excruciating which is good news but I’m very worried something really isn’t right… I’m just never late and never wanted AF to come so much in my life

@RMS0209 I will no doubt start with the cheapies at the weekend, can't help it. Will do a FRER at 10dpo and then take it from there. I've had squinters on cheapies at 9dpo before.
I'm taking the progesterone at the moment which has made me really crampy in the past and this month is no different. Feeling really inpatient this month which is not like me.

@Hjudge56 I feel for you so much. My period was 2 weeks late once. I did a positive clearblue ultra early and my DH who is the biggest doubter of lines saw it and said it was positive. The next day nothing. Negative tests. I have no idea what went on that time but honestly I was losing my mind. My period arrived 2 weeks later and it's been regular every since. Sending you a massive online hug xx

@MrsGrealish thank you so much.. it’s just the worst when you’re usually so regular!

i think I’m 95% certain this is a chemical but then there’s 5% of me that’s unsure because I’m having lots of early pregnancy symptoms and I’ve read that it’s unusual to continue to have those symptoms if you’re miscarrying. But my boobs are so sore and swollen, I keep feeling sick, I’m cramping and I’m so tired! I think feeling rubbish just doesn’t help at all does it :(

Massive congratulations @Lulux33 & @MrsUSAinUK amazing news!

Sorry you’re going through this @Hjudge56 wish I could give you a big hug!

After having all those weird symptoms and thinking I had ovulated shortly after stopping the pill, and then that stopping with negative tests. I was just waiting for AF to arrive.

However, the day AF was due, I definitely ovulated! Turns out, the ‘symptoms’ I had were my body reacting to the lack of pill. (Spoke to pjs of the docs at work). Luckily for me, I had been doing a lot of dancing thinking AF was to arrive any minute, so I’m hoping for the best still!

TWW, continues 🤣🤣 x

@Kitchiekobo thank you lovely. I’ve accepted in my heart this is a chemical.. bfn again this morning so I’m going to enjoy my weekend and spend time with loved ones and friends and even have a couple drinks because I think I deserve it after the last few days!!!

that’s a really positive message to read! Dancing all over the ovulation period so massive baby dust to you!

I did a FRER this morning at 9dpo and bright white negative. I know it's too early really but I can't help but feel disappointed.

I did too today at 10dpo and negative, i think i would have had a positive by now if i was pregnant so another month gone down the drain...

I’m in the same boat girls. Did a test this morning and it was a BFN, I’m 9dpo today. Soooo disappointing! Also I’ve started having af type cramps now so I think I’m out. I really thought we did it this month, I had all the symptoms! :( so unfair xx

@Tigertightss I also now have strong af cramps, I was absolutely convinced this time 😞 as soon as the witch arrives I'm getting wine!

Hi ladies, I've been away for few days and decided to have a break from all thoughts of TTC, so just been catching up now. I have missed loads!! Congratulations to those who have got their BFPs, so lovely to see 🥳🥰

@Hjudge56 sorry to read about what you have been experiencing, I hope you are ok 💗 Still crossing my fingers for a positive outcome for you🤞

I am now on CD6 of cycle 4 after what I hoped was implantation bleeding turned into AF last weekend. So I'll be back to the OPKs and DTD again next week. I have also been looking into what I can take to lengthen my luteal phase as it was only 9 days again 😪

@Nyxxie mine is 10 days, i am waiting for the GP to call me next week to discuss it and will also book an appointment with gynecologists next week after my AF finish. I will tell you what they say. A few ladies here got pregnant with short LP but as much as i know from deep researching, it is very very hard to get pregnant with short LP. I have taken vit b6, vitamic c and etc for months and no change...so frustrating!!!