January babies 🥶❄️🧣🥳🎊

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Don’t know what I’m doing with the emojis this time!

Who else is on for Jan? When would you be due?

I’m on cycle day 1 boooooo. Due to ovulate 2nd May. I think is due date 24th January.

So I’ll be testing around 15th May

I’m so sorry you’ve been going through all this :(

That’s so tough for you @MrsGrealish - my heart goes out to you. The frustration of TTC is one thing but all this uncertainty after a BFP is just awful for you. I really hope they work out what is happening soon so that you can have the right treatment and start to process it all.

@Charl881 thank you xx it's crap because I still feel pregnant..bloated sore boobs and her prodding me with that trans vaginal probe has given me the most horrific cramping 😩 wish I could wake up in a month and it would all be over

@MrsGrealish i am so sorry for everything you are going through. Its just beyond horrendous, and there are no words really, only hugs 😘

I am afraid it doesn’t look so positive over here either. I had an early scan today because of previous ectopic - by LMP I should be 7+6 but could be a week earlier, not sure when I ovulated but we only DTD once that month so dates can’t be that far out…

anyway, scan “inconclusive”. Sonographer saw gestational sac, yolk sac and teeny tiny fetal pole which she said looked more like 5 weeks. She said she “might” have seen a flicker of a heartbeat.

there’s no way I could be only 5 weeks along.

so sad, I really don’t know what to do with myself.

@Poppyjen I'm so so sorry. It's just been an exhausting 3 weeks all round. My levels didn't drop enough so I'm back in a week to repeat the whole process. There is still something in my uterus but I'm like you I had sex once should be 7 weeks today and that does not look anything like a 7 week scan. 100% sure of my dates.

Did u get a vaginal scan? My cramping has started again after me saying to her I'm in no pain. It's just exhausting I'm sorry you are going through this too. Are you getting a repeat scan? Xx

@Poppyjen big hugs to you too lovely 🥰 we will get through this together. I know mines a loss but it's so early your tiny bean might catch up. I mean they are so tiny at this point. I'll be thinking of you xx

@MrsGrealish thank you x

yes, repeat scan booked for next Monday.

I have been obsessively examining the dates…just in case. Only certainty is when we DTD so if there was ovulation a few days after that then late implantation there is a chance i could only be 6+3 but I think this is wishful thinking…and still too small for those dates 😔

this will be a very long week

Ohh @MrsGrealish 😭 I’m so sorry

@Poppyjen midwife was just off the phone there. The doctor wants me back in 48 hours. Honestly I could just sleep for days. It's truly exhausting.

Hi all, looking to join and for a bit of reassurance really! Had bfps on a few tests now so (provisional!!) due date will be around 19th-21st January.

Have an app for bloods this Wednesday as my lines are not progressing and are still very faint but I would be 6-7 weeks by now, can’t shake the bad feeling that either it’s not viable or I’ve made it all up!

So sorry to hear about the losses x

Sorry @MrsGrealish i lost this thread somehow. I’m so sorry you’re having such a shitty time with it. The waiting when you know it’s over must be horrible. We’re all here for you xx

@Poppyjen how many weeks were you when your ectopic was found?

@MrsGrealish around 9 weeks - I had some spotting so went for an early scan…

how are you feeling today?

@Poppyjen I have one sided lower back pain and it hurts to sit. My boobs ACHE, I'm due at epu tomorrow at 9am I rang them to ask advice there but they are just like go to a@e if you can't deal with the pain. A@e is shit at this hospital so I'll try and hold off til tomorrow 😭 I've no shoulder pain or shooting pains so I'm probably panicking over nothing. FML

How are you doing now @MrsGrealish ? Been thinking of you!

@Charl881 back up tomorrow to epu (sigh) but I got a super faint line this morning so the end is in sight!! (Attached a pic)

I just hope I stick to the ttc break. My hormones sometimes get the better of me😂 how are u doing?

I can’t believe how long this has dragged out for you bless you! How long do you think you’ll take a break for? I’m currently in the TWW but if not successful this cycle we are going to take a break until September at least!

@Charl881 I know! It's been mental. I asked for meds to clear the uterus last time but they wouldn't give me any. September sounds good for me too. DH booked a week to Barcelona at the beginning of September for us. I'll do my best to suppress the oestrogen surge in my fertile week for the next few months🙈 it makes me want to DTD and I need a break xx

@Charl881 this will be the month you get pregnant wait ti you see..I had kind of given up DTD literally once and got a positive. I think it's when you concentrate on other things it happens. Unfortunately mine didn't last but yours defo might 🤞