Need on advice on who my child’s father might be

[Hereforadvice22]

So I am exactly 8 weeks pregnant as of March 7,2022. I know that that means my fetal age is about 6 weeks. I’ve been with my boyfriend for 4 years and we are both very fertile. We’ve had lots of pregnancies but also lots of miscarriages. Anyway, I believe my last period started between Jan. 11 and Jan 14. We broke up for a day after a huge fight so I did something stupid and went out drinking. It resulted in me having sex with someone else on Jan 23 but the guy never got to finish inside of me. I know that doesn’t exclude pre cum. My boyfriend and I got right back together the next day and continued having unprotected sex both before and after I had my one night stand. I’m not sure if I am calculating the correct way but I believe if I am 6 weeks fetal age my conception date would be Jan. 31. I know a dna test will tell for sure but any advice on this? It will play a huge part in whether I terminate my pregnancy or not

Hi OP, hope you’re doing okay mentally with all of this, and have some support around you. There are pregnancy advice charities than can support with counselling regarding termination. Do you know when you ovulated?

I don’t know exactly when I ovulated

Unfortunately no one can tell you.
You need to decide if you want a child. No matter who the father.
Honestly if you’re having such huge fights that you go off drinking and sleep with someone else then I would say that’s not a relationship you want to bring a child into.

@Hereforadvice22 based on the dates you've suggested, it could be either man.

Sperm can stay alive inside you for a good few days so there is a small chance the baby could be the one night stand's

But, if the ons didn't cum inside you and you had regular sex with your bf, I would say the likelihood is that it's your bf's baby

Your boyfriend is definitely the father! I think it's impossible the other guy is?

If you're exactly 8 weeks today, your conception date would be 25th Jan op.

When you say you're exactly 8 weeks, what are you basing that on? LMP? Ultrasound? You say you don't know when you ovulated.

@beansprout55

Your boyfriend is definitely the father! I think it's impossible the other guy is?

Not impossible, no. There's still a possibility he could be the father.