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Not sure who my unborn child’s father is

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Hereforadvice22 · 08/03/2022 10:00

So I am exactly 8 weeks pregnant as of March 7,2022. I know that that means my fetal age is about 6 weeks. I’ve been with my boyfriend for 4 years and we are both very fertile. We’ve had lots of pregnancies but also lots of miscarriages. Anyway, I believe my last period started between Jan. 11 and Jan 14. We broke up for a day after a huge fight so I did something stupid and went out drinking. It resulted in me having sex with someone else on Jan 23 but the guy never got to finish inside of me. I know that doesn’t exclude pre cum. My boyfriend and I got right back together the next day and continued having unprotected sex both before and after I had my one night stand. I’m not sure if I am calculating the correct way but I believe if I am 6 weeks fetal age my conception date would be Jan. 31. I know a dna test will tell for sure but any advice on this? It will play a huge part in whether I terminate my pregnancy or not

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Dreamer30 · 08/03/2022 10:31

Unfortunately there's no way to know. If your period was 11th Jan and your cycles are regular, that would make ovulation around 25th Jan meaning intercourse on 23rd 2 days before ovulation could well have made a baby as it was within your peak fertility week. Any intercourse from about 20th-27th January could have resulted in a baby and there's no way to know who the father is

lunar1 · 08/03/2022 10:33

There is absolutely no way to know from those dates. Does your boyfriend know about the other man?

girlmom21 · 08/03/2022 10:33

Sorry OP, nobody here can tell you. Does your boyfriend know about the one night stand or the pregnancy?

JuneBug94 · 08/03/2022 10:40

Sorry OP, no way to know apart from a DNA test. Does your boyfriend know about ONS?

I'd probably get an STI check as you had unprotected sex. Just to be in the safe side as you have slept with your boyfriend since to protect yourself, and him and the unborn child should you carry on with the pregnancy.

GeraniumCedarwood · 08/03/2022 12:11

Hi OP, you may have posted this twice, and I wanted to make sure you got my message. I hope you’re doing okay mentally with all of this, and have some support around you.

There are pregnancy advice charities than can support with counselling regarding termination. They can support you whichever you choose.

Do you know when you ovulated?

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