Is the withdrawal method safe-ish?

[crymeout]

Hello,

My boyfriend pulled out this morning but in my opinion, it was too late as there was sperm outside my vagina (I couldn't feel anything inside but it was all over that area on the outside). He doesn't want any more children, I don't mind either way but I've made it clear I won't have an abortion. He was very casual about it, said there's no way that could end up with pregnancy and I said there is. Who's right and if it's me, is it unlikely? TIA.

It is pretty safe if you withdraw in good time and don’t have sex (and he doesn’t wank) less than 24hrs before, otherwise there is much more chance of speed being present in pre cum. We have used this alongside tracking my cycle for the past 11 years and have only conceived when planned.

Withdrawal lead to dd2!

[quote crymeout]@Butterscotchbaby does that mean you became pregnant? [/quote]
Yes it did. Unfortunately it ended in a misscarriage though :(

I have fertility issues so it’s pretty safe for me - so far it’s been 100% successful

With everyone I know (who’ve previously conceived naturally) who used this as a contraceptive method, they’ve all got one more child than they’d planned running around.

@Butterscotchbaby I'm so sorry